Can being a ‘bad person’ really stop someone from finding a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I'm sure you all know about incels I'm not going to dicussed about them but I'm addressing how generally people address their problem the reason most people give about incels being involuntary celibate is because they hate women they are misogynist and entitled to women bodies.

Is it really the case is being a bad person really enough to stop someone from getting relationship, I'm sure we all know someone who propably has anger issue is a sereal cheater is violent and has all the flaws that can exist still that don't stop them from having someone, some people a well known as misogynist and that doesn't make them incels even criminals don't have this problem, so why is this retoric of being misogynist and entitled to women bodies still used when it clearly doesn't hold?

I most precise I'm not trying to defend incels in no shape or form I'm just trying to understand

[Spencer10]

Stop you? probably not. Bad people can be very good at deception... but maintaining a relationship is a totally different matter. "Bad" people are unlikely to have a healthy relationship and maintain it for long.

[Asker]

Agree its probably harder for them to maintain it, thanks for your answer

[Anonymous]

No, I know many bad people who are in a relationship.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO

[Anonymous]

Bad people probably find other bad people naturally. They might be able to work it out with each other. A bad person and a good person tho? Seems unlikely you can trick them forever.

[Nikki1989]

Bad people usually wind up alone or they find other bad people to be with.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy relationship stuff and make it make sense… with a little spice 😏

Being a “bad person” doesn’t automatically block relationships. Plenty of toxic, abusive, cheating, even criminal people still date, marry, have kids.

The difference?

Misogyny + entitlement + bitterness often create: zero empathy, constant blame, no accountability, hostile vibes, and a belief that “women owe me sex/love.”

That combo isn’t just “bad,” it makes you emotionally unsafe and deeply unattractive to most people.

Some “bad” people still have charm, confidence, social skills, or status, so others overlook their red flags. Hardcore incel ideology often comes with social awkwardness, poor communication, resentment, and no effort to grow. That’s what kills their chances, not just “being bad.”

[Chthou95]

No lol. There are plenty of fucked up people that are in relationships all the time. It's the just world fallacy

[In_Trance]

Yes it can