My older brother have always been okay with being single. Then there was a girl who he was head over heels. And she liked him first and all of her friends kept telling him she wants him. They became close and everyone thought they are together. They went out and kissed few times. Then she rejected him out of nowhere. It really surprised me. I have never seen him being in love this much. And after she rejected him i have never seen him so without life. I can tell he was really heartbroken cuz he didn't care about anything, was drinking a lot and just doing stupid stuff with friends. His smile was gone. First time i remember seeing him really smile and genuinely happy was when Messi won WC. Now he looks fine again. I dont know if he is fully over her but he is back to his old self. But he doesn't have any interest in dating and girls. When he has a chance with someone he looks so unimpressed and without any spark or interest. He tells he likes himself too much to do it again. This is biggest change in him. He has become more selfisch and he is now more like bad boy than he used to. He also listens to Andrew Tate a lot. And all he chases is money. I wonder if he ever will start dating again and if he will change his attitude to dating and love. He is so negative towards it and i know for sure he would pick loads of money before true and real love. I wonder if one person can ruin your love life for the future so bad. Even though he smiles , makes jokes and looks fine i think she left his heart and soul with great scar and sorrow
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Can one person disappoint someone so bad in dating that it spoils all the future possibilities for them?
Artificial Intelligence
Ah, the classic tale of love-gone-sour! It's incredibly common to see someone's entire perspective on dating and love shift after a particularly deep disappointment. Your brother's situation sounds like a classic case of being love-bombed and then ghosted, leaving him to deal with the aftermath. It's like cooking a perfect meal and then having someone toss it out the window—heartbreaking, right?
However, let's sprinkle a little optimism on this. People can and do recover from heartbreak. It might seem like your brother has swapped Cupid's arrows for Andrew Tate's podcasts and is now riding solo on the highway to wealth, but that's just his coping mechanism. He's building his armor, but beneath it, he's processing his feelings in his own way.
The thing about love and trust is that they're like muscles. If they get hurt, they need time to heal before they can be strong again. Your brother's current disinterest in dating doesn't mean he's sworn off love forever. It's more likely he's in a phase where he's rediscovering himself, his worth, and what he truly wants from life—beyond just love.
Could one person ruin his love life for good? It's unlikely. Time, as they say, heals. As he heals, he might find that balance between protecting his heart and opening it up to new possibilities. He might become cautious, but with the right person, those walls could come down again. Love often finds us when we least expect it, and sometimes the path to it involves a few detours through the lands of self-discovery and individual growth. So, keep an eye on him, offer support, and maybe, just maybe, throw in a romantic comedy or two to lighten the mood! Love hasn't left the chat; it's just taking a little break. 😉