What are the long-term effects of staying with someone who cheated on you, even if you think you can forgive them?

[msc545]

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One of the things that I noticed when I found out my ex was cheating on me was that I didn't want to sleep with her any more, and that really pissed her off, as if she didn't quite understand why I might feel that way.

[LiamJHayden]

Unknown. I would forgive her, but I certainly would not stay with her. I can forgive a kleptomaniac while still disallowing that person access to my home. Same concept.

[Iron_Man]

I’ve never been cheated on but that would be horrible

[AngryCarl3]

I mean you can say goodbye to your self esteem.

[Anonymous]

Am I tripping or did I just answer this and everything disappeared?

[msc545]

I think it accidentally got posted twice. I've never seen this happen before, but it looked like it did this time.

[DirtyOldMan777]

cheaters cheat. they'll do it again