Have you ever stayed in a relationship after being cheated on?

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If you have why did you stay? Did it end up working out?

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

I got cheated on in my first relationship. We broke up each time I found out yet i kept taking him back some hours/days/weeks/months later when he’d come back claiming he changed. (So ig that counts as the only relationship i ever “stayed” in after being cheated on.) I now know people don’t fully change who they are. Its often a temporary change of their actions. If they “truly changed” their ways, its often because they went through some religious reform, making it more believable. I was cheated on by one other guy, not exactly physically, but he was a disgusting pos grown man sexting a young high school girl and was set on taking her virginity. The first guy cheated because he apparently could not see himself being monogamous and wanted to fck a different girl every other month. The other guy just wanted to see who he could get sex from first but at the end of the day, he didn't get it out of either of us.

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

No, but many things happen in relationships between people, and cheating is just one of a myriad of things that people do to one another.

Lots of people stay. But culture has shifted. Now, you the recipient are more shamed for staying than you would have been in the past for doing the opposite - leaving. Consider that. And make your own decisions. No two circumstances are exactly alike. Only you hold all the information; not us.

EricSummer · Accepted Answer

Yes, I have. After she cheated, my wife was with the other guy for a while, but I wanted to win her back. When they broke up, it briefly seemed like I had won, but in fact she started blaming me for having lost the other. She then actually got back together with the guy before finally breaking up with him for good. With this second round it was over for me.

I think when you have children together you can make a fair attempt once. Everything has limits of course.

Now I am with a wonderful woman, and my ex wife has had several other boyfriends, no doubt fascinating people.

Billlewis · Accepted Answer

Yes, and ironically, being cheated on was the first step towards becoming the sweet, generous cuckold I am today. When one of my first girlfriends cheated on me, after I got over my initial reaction, I realized that it turned me on tremendously, and from then on, whenever we had sex, she knew I'd bring up the subject of her infidelity, and ask her if he was better in bed than me, and if his dick was bigger, etc. She knew all she had to do is answer all my questions with, 'Yes', and I'd explode in orgasm instantly... lol

Pinay_ako · Answer

Hellllll no. It’s over once I found out the truth. There is no going back. He can’t undo sticking his dick inside her, can he? 😂 He will and can do it again. Bye ✌️

Finchie40 · Answer

No, once she cheats it’s over , even though I might still love and care about her, I love myself more and realize I deserve a girl that loves me and stays loyal to me the same way I do for her

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I have been cheated on twice and ended the relationship both times. If you tolerate that behavior, your partner will get the idea that cheating is tolerable and will likely do it again.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I told the last guy I dated that if he ever made me jealous I would break up cause I cannot handle that kind of emotion in any long term way.

BadApple69 · Answer

Yes I was cheated on and we stayed together and yes it worked out. BUT as a man to survive this you have to truly believe in forgiveness. This can’t be something you throw up in her face during future arguments. For me, understanding the “why” was the most important thing. In a very short timeframe I read a dozen books on the subject. The first question I asked was do you want to stay with me or with him? If she picked him that would have been it, but if she picked me then the hard work would begin. I won’t lie to you, she saw a therapist for a year and every visit was a reminder to me of why she was seeing him.
I know others that read this would say “why waste the time on some that cheated?”
Because when you jump into reality with both feet you will discover that almost everyone cheats eventually. It’s human nature.

hahahmm · Answer

Outside of marriage, I would dump a woman instantly for cheating. And I had to. In a marriage -- it hasn't happened to me -- but I don't think I would do that. To me marriage is much more important. I would need to confirm 100% that the relationship is unfixable. Obviously there's a limit to everything in life tho.

xoxosilentgirl · Answer

Not my story but my friend’s. She got cheated on multiple times but always denial. My other friend tried to made her realize that he’s a been obviously playing behind her back, she still in her delusional state and unfortunately got fight with my other friend just because she didn’t believe it. At the end she got tired and broke up with him, 3 months later he got engaged to other woman ( not the girl he cheated on with).

sheenagwapa · Answer

peoplw underestimate too much how i am serious when it comes to romantic relationship that they think they can fool me nor they thibk if they will show me grandeur of wealth and fame i will yield to what thry want to happen. it's funny how it seems they have the audacity to get mad at me while i'm the one being fooled

billmunch · Answer

Yes, I've been cheated on im every relationship I've ever had and have never ended a relationship because of it. To be honest, being cheated on turns me on, so if my SO wants to fuck other guys, she doesn't even have to hide it from me, so long as she doesn't get pregnant or fuck my buddies, I'm fine with it because I probably get just as much excitemnt out of it as she does.

DaddyDiablo · Answer

Yeah I have and I did through out like 4 times maybe if her cheating on me but wasn't physical just verbal it seemed like n then I went through on n off relationship with her for almost 2 years maybe 2 years... Still hurts n sucks each time it just made me wonder if she even liked me

provokeesmokee · Answer

Nope. I moved out as soon as I secured a place. I kicked him out of the bedroom the day I found out. Cheaters are cowards and I don't date cowards. 🤷🏾

sheikalana · Answer

Kind of and I do not recommend. This guy was talking to another women. I was informed by the other woman with screenshots. We had an argument but we we're stuck in a hotel and on vacation. A few weeks later he broke up with me.

California_Poppy · Answer

Unknowingly 🙃  Never again though. That's a deal breaker for me. I would not be able to get over it and I would find it hard to remain attracted to the person.

electromagnetic · Answer

I did and I deeply regret it.  It only got worse for me up until the point I had to just pick up my things, leave the home, and block his number.

Lliam · Answer

I never cheated while in a relationship and I was never cheated on. I would break up if a girl ever cheated on me and I wouldn't give any second chances. They proved their lack of ethics.

Dysney1023 · Answer

No! Definitely no. Never have and never will I hold HIGH A** standards for myself, mate. He gotta match, or it won’t work.

Darine123 · Answer

I had before, it ended up not working anyway so it better just get out of the relationship after you found out he cheated because everytime you talk to him another girls face will pop up in your head

Anonymous · Answer

Yes.  I count porn as cheating and calling other women “sexy” as cheating too. But I knew nothing different so I stayed. That was my first and last relationship. The trauma is bad, man.

MementoMori777 · Answer

no, if she's touching other people's meats she belongs to the streets  simple brotology lol

exitseven · Answer

As far as I know I have never been cheated on.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. I left him. If it happened to my next aka my future husband i will have his genitals removed

yulbsari · Answer

Hell NO!!! My ex-fiance cheated on me years ago. I have never looked back or talked to her since. Definitely the best decision...

Mansearching · Answer

No. I packed up and walked out. Haven't seen or heard from her since.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

My only relationship after being cheated on would be with a gigantic prisoner if I didn't get protective custody after the murder trial.

normandi · Answer

I did stay I thought i use her as a fuck toy as she was fucking sexy big mistake

Anonymous · Answer

Only for as long as I could because I stayed for the kids and had no where to go at the time

Anonymous · Answer

Yes only while I sorted out a plan to move into my own place.

virtualwasp · Answer

i try not to be a schmuck so no.

elizamichale1 · Answer

I did in a hope tht it would get okay

OddBeMe · Answer

No that’s a dealbreaker

Fuentes · Answer

Can't trust them back stabbers

Anonymous · Answer

I dont want a man that bad.

Anonymous · Answer

Never! I have far too much self respect.

Gagforlifetime · Answer

If someone cheats then they shouldn’t stay

Sophia15f · Answer

No, I wouldn't be able to.

justabuddy · Answer

Nope... that's a huge deal breaker for me.

LostandFound__x · Answer

Yes. And no.

dudeinohio · Answer

I have not.

LavLavLuv · Answer

Ew no

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