wouldn't say "for the rest of your life"... easy to get past it really
@Tdieseler I guess if you don't give a shit sure.
hard not to give a shit... but after dissecting it... you can see the holes. read my opinion. just posted it.
@Tdieseler Well you answered the question correctly. I pretty much just went to the extreme on one end. I answered it based it on a married couple who has been together for a very long time, has kids, etc etc... that is what popped into my mind when I read the question.
ah... the age/experience factor lol...What you said was on point too.. and now that you add the variables... it would be a little harder but there is ALWAYS a workaround. just gotta use it. funny thing about when people "stray" on you... you can forgive... but i dont think you ever forget.
It will not go well if you ever get pregnant. I know a few people who did this. One of them, she got pregnant but it ruined their relationship while they had a test done. Yes he was the father but the damage was already done. So please be careful
I can't get pregnant so I guess this isn't a problem
Don't get why this is disliked it seems reasonable.If you two are both happy with it that's great.
It works well for us. We are open and honest with everything that happens while the other is away so it works. And I mean I get that it isn't for everybody, but when you go 3 -8 months at a time not seeing your spouse chances are they will cheap or be temped too (I'm not saying everyone would please don't attack me 😂). We are just accepting this an finding a way to not have problems arise from this
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Well he told me straight up, "ima go get some pussy and head from other girls while u wait til marriage for us"
He told me i was wifey and they were girlfriends 🙈
@DizzyDesii lol... i like this guy. who was this? ok, i like him because he was upfront... but honestly, at this point i'd just leave. My "straying" (without cause) days are over. i mean... if i ain't getting it from the person im supposed to be with... why are they saying they are with me...and yea... i know you are waiting... but that is a CHOICE you made. and this guy made a CHOICE too... so you can't be mad :)
I was 15 at the time dude. And im not waiting anymore. He was my first everything
@DizzyDesii we all have those... someone was my first... but i won't say everything... but I've been quite a few peoples first everything. i guess its just up to the person.Bottomline..."now you know"...
Yea it only took one fcked up dude to turn me dominant.
@DizzyDesii who said he was fucked up? aren't you happy to be dominant now? (and yummy if i may add...)i never discount what exes do... yea they didn't fulfill the fantasy... but they made you realize new things about yourself... and how to move on. Now you are a strong woman who know what and WHO the fuck she wants...thats why i hate it when some women say..."and he just wasted my time"... did they really? if thats true... then you wasted theirs as well... because you spent the same amount of time. You live you learn... you think i became a cunt automatically? no... i learned from the tons of exes (whose hearts i broke :( ) we all learn... so dont say fucked up dude... say fucked up situation.
Sir yes sir 😌
@DizzyDesii Just saying boo... i see a lotta angles in this stupid war. shit used to be so simple. let me link you to something else. lets see what you got. Why wait to have sex after marriage? ↗
That’s good they just think you’ll accept it.
Absolutely not... moving on was the best thing
I bet plus you would Of had to take care of his kid to I seen before.
I do.We have 3 together. He live in another state now while im here doing it all.
I don’t even want kids if I do I’ll adopt.
Adoption is good. Help give a child a better home
I have been in a relationships for 5 years and if my partner were to cheat I don’t think I’ll ever be able to forgive or forget it and things wouldn’t be the same anymore if they were forgiven anyway.
@yomei yes definitely I was with that girl for over a year and first time she was just talking to a boy like flirting and stuff so I got really pissed of and said it's me or him so she stopped talking than when I found out again they were actually meeting up so I told her to go
It was hard to let her go but I knew I couldn't hold on to her
I mean their partner
Rip grumpy cat
@emmily2396 well it wasn't meant to live very long with that disability.
He cheated with friends, enemies, etc. He boldly told me and i just stayed hoping he'd stop. He pressured me into sex to keep him faithful and that didn't work cause when he started back cheating, he said that he needs to try a variety to experiment more. We broke up after a year but not due to his cheating. He went to military school. He got there and recruited a bunch of "better men" to date me after how he wronged me. He was a pos. I had like 7 guys writing me letters thanks to him. I wasn't into any of them lmao