Have you ever stayed with someone who cheated on you if so why and how long did it last?

[Anonymous]

Have you ever stayed with someone who cheated on you? What did it make you feel like? Why did you stay with them and for how long

[Finchie40]

I tried taking an ex back that cheated on me thinking things might be different , to realize it wasn’t the same , I feel once someone makes the decision to cheat that relationship is already over , and it’s best to just move on , if someone truly loved you , they wouldn’t cheat on you period is how I look at things , if someone truly loves you they would fix what was broken before jumping into bed with someone else. Cheating is a selfish act that sadly a lot of people tend to do when they feel like they aren’t getting their way in the relationship or they feel like they met someone better than their current partner , and that’s all fine and dandy if they did. But have the dignity to end the relationship, don’t go back to the person you cheated on acting like it was a mistake ,

[Billlewis]

Oh, absolutely. My first serious girlfriend was going home every weekend and having sex constantly with a guy she went to school with, and when she told me about it, after I got over my initial reaction, I realized that it excited me tremendously. Within a couple of days,, I was begging her to keep seeing him. She was my girlfriend for two years after that.

[dliv2]

potentially because I don't know if he cheated or not. I have my suspicions. But our relationship has lasted over a decade and we are very happy besides sexually is a bit of an issue. I contemplate ending it over this. But i do feel his love in other ways.

Its a really personal issue... people cheat for different reasons. I personally say it is unforgivable. but sometimes people work through things for the better.

[Asker]

So you think he's cheating but can't prove it

[MissBoogus]

It’s not the same because it wasn’t cheating when we first opened our relationship to see another women, but it hurt just the same. It’s very strange. I needed lots of tlc.

[Asker]

¹I've tried this before myself not worth it ever

[MissBoogus]

It’s been good

[Asker]

Happy to hear

[Anonymous]

yes, it made me feel like a cut worm that had had its guts extracted with a straw and i was left to flounder in the dirt in pieces,
i stayed because life was a roaring vacuum without her.
but the magic had gone.
and I've been cast adrift ever since in a black and white version of a world i once saw in colour

[Opinion Owner]

chicks smh

[Asker]

Leaveee

[FunkyMonkee]

I recon, guess & calculate that I was with her for at least a year before I broke up with for cheating on me. The reason I stayed was because I had no idea she was cheating on me all that time!! As soon as I found out, I dropped her like a hot brick!!

[Asker]

Cold

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah, she was!

[Asker]

True so you did what you had to do

[FunkyMonkee]

Absolutely! I'm not the jealous type and have no problem with her having male friends, especially if I have female friends but, she kept calling this guys, her "FRIEND, David"! One day, my aunt wanted to know how many places to set for Thanksgiving dinner because, the past couple years, Madame Ex had been spending a lot of her holidays with Turkish or Polish friends of hers or, her FRIEND, David so, I called her up to see if she was coming over for dinner and she said no, she's spending it with her FRIEND, David! I jokingly said, "What, are you gonna MARRY the guy?" After a pause of a few seconds, she said, "Well... yes." I dropped her, a year later, she dropped him and went back to India! Last I heard, she teaches Indian philosophy in a university in Denmark.

[Asker]

That's crazy

[FunkyMonkee]

Quite! Then a couple years later, because I told her niece that she was gorgeous (she was 18, at the time) she accused me of trying to fuck her niece! In the first place, I always considered her to be MY niece, too! EXCUSE ME for trying to compliment my niece!! Secondly, she's at least 35 years younger than me!!

[Asker]

Sounds like she was craztb

[FunkyMonkee]

At least weird.

[Anonymous]

I took my wife back after she cheated on me. She was pregnant when I took her back,

The kid belonged to the guy she was having sex with behind my back.
she came to me begging to take her back.

we had a 5 hour conversation about what happened And by the end of the 5 hour conversation I decided to take her back.

it’s Ben a couple years now, Me and her are closer than ever. our relationship is even better than before.
And we are raising that kid together

[Asker]

Shit

[Asker]

Happy for you how long did it take for her to come back

[Opinion Owner]

Close to 3 years later

[virtualwasp]

No, i have a weak stomach and couldn't put up with it.

[clubboss]

Whoever cheats doesn't deserve to be in relationship at all. You can not trust that person ever.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, I did for a few years because we had kids together and I couldn’t sell the house if I left because it was worth less than what I owed

[jahaims]

No, I have self respect