Have you ever stayed with someone who cheated only to dump them because you couldn't handle it?

[Anonymous]

please only reply if you have experience with the tropic or known a friend who does.

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[OlderAndWiser]

I was dating Evelyn, a girl who was not really a good candidate for a LTR but I was happy to be with her exclusively on an indefinite basis. She cheated on me with my ex-roommate/friend. It ended the friendship but I didn't end the relationship with Evelyn, but my concern for her as a partner evaporated. I really enjoyed the sex with her and I started just using her for sex and not really caring about her happiness or her welfare. A few months later, I moved back home, about 250 miles away. I continued to visit in Evelyn's location periodically, and I usually spent time with her and had meaningless sex.

In a sense, I dumped her when I learned about her cheating, although I didn't end the relationship. I just started looking at her as a convenient and free whore for me to use. Looking back on it, I am not proud of how I handled that situation.

[Asker]

She ever Catch on to it?

[Harshbro]

You did the smartest thing you could in that situation. Pump and dump her as long as you can, never invest into the relo again

[OlderAndWiser]

I don't think she realized what I was doing.

[SolitarySolace]

No. I broke up with all of my exes because they all cheated. Blocked them and never heard from them again. Stopped dating and having relationships because I’m sick of being cheated on. If women want someone else they can have someone else to make feel miserable. I was never happy involved with a woman anyway. Don’t think I ever will be happier than I am without

[jennifer_bloom]

The last guy I dated, which I would classify more as an experiment in guy girl relationships without physical interaction and not a solid relationship without physical affection, caused me to feel jealousy over a female who was very close to him that was not a family member. It disturbed me that she had a dominant position in his social life but I wanted to respect his right to her friendship cause I believed she had served very important functions in his life at times where he was in need and others were not there for him. My friend said she's been in his life longer then you and if you ask him to choose right away, he will chose the one he's known all his life over you who he's dated for only a short period of time.

[electromagnetic]

I ghosted. I packed up my stuff and left without a trance. 😬

He was cheating of me with multiple other people in different cities and his wife called and told me. Super polite and I foooooolishedly listened to him twist her words. Went to bed, he left for work and I packed up and disappeared.

[AI Opinion]

Absolutely, I've seen this play out more than a few times in my line of work. Love can sometimes blind us to the red flags waving right in front of our faces. Forgiving a cheater is a steep hill to climb, full of trust issues and constant wonder. It's like trying to smooth over a crumpled piece of paper; it'll never be quite the same again. And sure enough, the emotional toll often becomes too heavy to bear, leading to the inevitable goodbye. It's heartbreaking, but it's also a brave step towards self-love and respect. Learning to let go and move on is a journey, but it's also an opportunity to find something (or someone) that truly values you. 🌟

[Asker]

You known people personal who experience this?

[Fireguy17]

nope, been cheated on twice by 2 different women, and they/I were/was gone.
I had one come back a while later, I was pretty sure that was what she wanted, by I couldn't trust her, I thought about it, but I really didn't think that I could trust her.

[Nikki1989]

Most men cheat or at least are thinking about it. I dumped everyone that cheated on me but I have been lucky, it was only a couple. I know women who have been with no one but cheating men.

[TommyMountainFigure]

No. When they cheated I walked away! I'm not interested in playing games, or forgiving for that matter!

[strateguy632]

not me, i would dump as soon as i knew. but my gals didn't cheat or i never found out!

[Flatmanlewis]

Nope. Once you cheat, you hit the street. I have no patience or tolerance for such horrific disrespect.

[Raki016]

Yep a friend. Don't really understand the question do you want the story? or like what happened? you just asked if It happened to me or someone i know and the answer is yes a friend of mine.

[Asker]

Yes I want the story

[Anonymous]

I’ve had an ex who cheated on me. She didn’t think ik about it but called it off with me cause she “needed time” little time last by then she apologized wanting me back but I didn’t take her

[poshspice123]

No I couldn’t forgive it

[Prodigy5401]

No. That's asking for trouble.

[CharlotteNoivern1986]

Nope