How many times can your significant other grossly disrespect you before you cut them loose?

[Chazmatazz269]

I just watched a video of a woman making a man wait an hour and laughing in his face about it. The comments are filled with people talking about how cute and funny it is, but i can’t help but think about the immeasurable outrage that such a video would spawn if the sexes were reversed.
So how much blatant disrespect do you stomach for the sake of not being alone?

[Finchie40]

Usually when disrespect occurs in a relationship, that’s usually the start of the end of that relationship, There is only so much disrespect someone can take in a relationship , before they walk away for good , so that guy should of left her ass there , if she was taking that long to come out to the car. Or he should have walked up and knocked on the door to hurry her ass up. When a partner doesn’t consider their partners’ feelings and finds it funny to disrespect them , , that should be their answer to tell them to Go fuck themselves. So if he is wise , he should have a serious talk with her and put an end that that shit real quick , if she doesn’t apologize for her behavior then he is best to dump her ass

[Twodogs0525]

Well, I broke up with a girl because she ate my Philly cheese sandwich I was going to have for dinner. She also laughed in my face when I got pissed! I told her, "You don't cook for me and I sure as fuck don't cook for you!" Of course, there was more disrespecting prior but that was the last straw.

[MissSunshine2]

Look, I tended to allow all kinds of mistreatment from guys. Now, if a guy is semi disrespectful but I see potential for it to change, they end up in the acquaintancezone or friendzone, never to return to romantic zone potential. I don't really have enemies or want enemies. I'm a bit of a people pleaser.

[HollyK21]

Wait an hour for what?

[Chazmatazz269]

That is unclear. He sat in a car in front of her house for an hour because she told him to pick her up at 5:30, but she didn’t get into his car until almost 6:30.

[Purpleronnie]

The situation you described is difficult to respond to at face value because it’s intent that matters to me. It reads to me like a staged video and feels a bit like rage bait.


To answer your question though intent is at the core of the disrespect question but also it’s about the pattern.


Disrespect acknowledged and corrected can be worked through.


Disrespect repeated after clear boundaries being set and agreed is a choice


For me respect is at the core of my relationship if a partner were to show me ( which has happened ) , that my dignity is negotiable to them the number of times I would let disrespect slide becomes almost completely irrelevant. The pattern of disrespect is the answer

[Ill_made_Knight]

I'm not gonna be ridiculed like that by someone that claims to be close to me, so she'll no longer be close to me. I expect certain standards of treatment and I abide by them myself. that's belittling and disrespectful.

[usernameobvious]

I feel like Rob (The Master) should've dumped his useless girlfriend Chris (even with a name like that, no K even) or feminine and she was useless in saving Rob. It was The Brave Little Toaster Movie of course.

All Chris the woman ever did was bitch about the appliances and Chris' resentment of buying new.

[usernameobvious]

Rob should've dated better 👀😂

[LC75LC71]

Twice. Fuck with me once, alright I'll absorb that one.. Next time? Well don't let there be a next time.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

When there was disrespect going on, it meant we were in this somewhat muddy stage of a breakup that isn't official yet but soon to be. Which could have taken a couple of weeks or a few months

[Ghost-A]

You can earn love and meet in the middle on it, but respect isn't up for debate.

[InStrictConfidence]

It is more what moral line or better: if they cross in my opinion.

[Badtobad]

A few times, then he's gone

[Agape93]

Depends on the partner and what they're doing.

[Kassandra1994]

I have a question Are you a believer in the spiritual world? Or a witch?7

[Agape93]

I'm an occultist. Why?

[Kassandra1994]

You dont seem that judgmental and the symbol on your profile picture. Listen I made a love spell almost a decade ago on my ex boyfriend weird stuff has been happend question is how do I break it? My ex he is married with kids he is a strong christian and the love spell backfire me. How do I break this

[Agape93]

No need. Love spells aren't real. They do absolutely nothing. His Will, is simply not with you.

[Kassandra1994]

Have you tired doing love spells?

[Kassandra1994]

I mean try sorry my phone is crazy.

[Agape93]

You're fine.

No, because again they do nothing.

[Kassandra1994]

Ok. But you do believe in the siritial world and taht person have etheir good energy or bad energy?

[Agape93]

Energy is neutral. What makes it good or bad, is intent.

[_Jenny_]

I’m not with a guy but when I am?

[Tomislav7]

70x77 or something right