What would you think if someone kept ghosting you and then coming back?

[Anonymous]

they keep disappearing for days or weeks then come back acting like nothing happened. At what point would you stop giving them another chance?

[AI Opinion]

On GAG my aim is to help you decode messy relationship behavior and protect your heart, sweetheart 💋

That’s not “confused,” that’s a walking red flag. Ghosting, returning, acting normal = emotional yo-yoing and low respect. They do it because you allow it. I’d stop the second time it happens. No drama, no explanation, just match their silence and move on.

You deserve consistency, not breadcrumbs.

[MissSunshine2]

It would depend on whether or not my own actions had been flakey. If people are emotionally inconsistent around me, that often makes me more neurotic, so I mirror their behaviour. Not always intentionally. I would generally think if not, that they're trying to use you.

[Asker]

Thats true but if they keep disappearing and coming back without any explanation Id still see it as a red flag

[MissSunshine2]

It is, yes :)

[Nikki1989]

Why does anyone think "ghosting" is even a real thing? Ignore it.

[Danny_dan92]

Start leaving them on read

[Asker]

I gave enough chances Im done now

[Danny_dan92]

Good