How did you react when someone came back after ghosting you for awhile? Were you done with that person? Did you take him/her back?
- Did you take him/her back?27%(14)30%(23)Vote36%(9)
- Were you over it by then?73%(37)70%(53)Vote64%(16)
Most Helpful Guy
When they came back they only wanted something from me. Some are more patient than others. I didn't accept any of them back. And when they asked me for whatever they wanted I would say no and they would disappear again. People come back when they either want something from you or realize just how good you really are.1
Most Helpful Girl
I would communicate clearly in the event of a misunderstanding. Otherwise if there's no misunderstanding, I'm out.
Sometimes you think a person is playing games when really they are confused. So I make sure we're all clear. If they are just playing games no way. Not just bc there's no reason to expect it to stop, but because they've been disrespectful and accepting them back is accepting their behavior. I think it's important to have boundaries and to sync behind them, for yourself. It helps too bc you don't have to re assess each situation. You come to know where you stand what you put up with what you won't, and move on easily. Thinking about something us an investment. If you don't have to think about if which you don't if you know your boundaries, it's easy to let go if a bad situation.4