Wondering how often this happens where someone who ghosted you comes back. and how long were they gone before they showed up again?
Have you ever had ghoster come back to you after a time? how long did it take for them to contact you again if so?
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Oh yes... I have several instances of this happening. Not just guys I was interested in dating, but supposed "friends" too.
When I was younger and naive, I fell for their sob stories and lies... thankfully I'm older and wiser now, and know how to use the block/ignore feature quite well.
I've had people ghost me for days, weeks, months... but the worse case was a guy that ghosted me for TWO YEARS, only to reappear as if nothing happened! Yeah, I'm serious: two years.
He claimed he became homeless, had no internet, phone, lived with some people... blah blah. I didn't believe it. Nowadays there's so many places that offer free internet and wifi- hell even the library! Why not reach out and let me know, "Hey I'm going through a hard time right now so I may not be around as much..." or something like that.
The bad thing is, he ghosted me out of the blue wwithout a reason; I would have dated him too because we clicked so well.
Yeah I ignored him and acted as if nothing happened. I have no empathy for ghosters: years of people doing that to me has made me quite bitter.
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Yeah. It was about 3 months.
I was devastated when he ghosted me. I thought he liked me the way I liked him. Foolishly, I let him back into my life when he came back because I missed him. He just made the excuse that he had things going on.
I was torn, because my heart wanted him back in my life and my head was telling me not to trust him again. He seemed very insincere when he came back into my life. Wish I'd listened to my gut.
He ended up ghosting me again. He did try to come back again, but i cut l ties with him. I'd never let him back in my life again. I've learned my lesson.
Had this once off of tinder. Her and I connected, then directly after we connected,... she completely ghosted me,... then about 6 or 7 months later she re-establishes communication with me, and we did talk for like a few days. We finally had met once in person. She didn't ghost me right away, but her communication with me was lacking. Once she had told me we're just not going to connect anymore,... that was it. The communication between her and I was done.
She did tried to talk to me a few times outside in the public area, but I just brushed her off and barely acknowledged her. Then I just texted her once,... the final text. Just simply told her to not approach and talk to me again.
... haven't seen nor spoke to her in a few years.
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A few one! One messaged back with titty pics while she was drunk one night 😂
Another messaged as soon as she found out I had a girlfriend a few months after she ghosted me.
There are some others. The general pattern seems to be that either they sleep around and just wanted to add me to their pseudo-harem (gross), or they weren't getting attention from the guy they are actually fucking or really like. It's a bit insulting, really.
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Yeah, I think I told you about it before. They contacted me after 6-7 months (and during that time, I learned that their girlfriend was pregnant). They were trying to be funny with me, telling me some stupid lie, when I knew the truth the entire time.
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I've had more than one, it was super annoying. One finally got bored & now they only watch me on social media. The other one every once in awhile will pop up and message me from a random account. Lol
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Dude that photo is hilarious. Yes one was like 4 years apologizing how she acted and wondered if I wanted to talk.. I was like not interested at all at that point.
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I had one before. It was a guy who showed up 3 or 4 months after ghosting. We texted for a few weeks then he ghosted me again.
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No, itâs not up to them, if some coward ever ghosted me, I would never allow them back into my life!
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if someone ghosted me, they're getting blocked so they can't contact me again in the future for whatever dumb bullshit that they want.
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They always do and its from a ânew numberâ or new account... i look at their text and ignore it
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One guy did try to plan a date and did ghost then I went onto snapchat and did a pass story and found out he had a girlfriend that I think was spamming me. The date didn't happen. I did block him after that.
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I'd hire a ghost exterminator and tell then to stay gone.
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Yeah just happened recently but I havenât bothered opening their message. My time got wasted so they can forget about getting anymore of it lol
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Only ghosted by jobs I've applied to. And, of course, they never called me back.
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I have been ghosted once but he was a jerk anyway so i just gave up on him
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I've never had a ghoster come back to me before.
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No. She was like 19 though so if that it true then she probably suppa busy
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Only had a ghost visit me once, and that was right after the person died.
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It's weird. I'm not sure what she wants. I guess NOT me.
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And I got my # changed! (especially when there's more fish in the sea)
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No. And I would prefer if they didn't.
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