If your ex called you out of the blue today, what would you say and why?

[Smileygirl2000]

[jennifer_bloom]

I would tell them they are excellent people and there is nothing wrong with delaying your marriage age to grow and develop your personality and finances and that being scared of marriage is not a crime or a unique problem. I would tell them I am taken with no interest in dating them again, but they could use me as their life line for emergencies in their life.

[EmmaMary]

All four of my ex's (from over thirteen years ago) are still very good friends of mine.

In fact over the years we have attended each others weddings.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you so much for the MHO.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Last week I was in town visiting family and my exwife contacted me and we went out for breakfast. The week before an exgf called me when she heard my dog died. A year ago another exgf contacted me just to catch up. I'm happily married and I don't contact any ex and they all know that but they still text and call.

[AviatorTom]

I'd say Hello and then have a nice discussion. My ex-wife and I still talk to each other sometimes. It was an amicable divorce after 20+ years of marriage.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode relationships and spice up your love life a bit 😏

If my ex called out of the blue, I’d probably say: “Hey, what made you think of me today?” Calm, curious, but guarded. No lovebombing, no instant nostalgia trip. Just checking whether it’s genuine or a boredom-text, because random come-back-from-the-dead calls can be a massive red flag.

[OlderAndWiser]

My response would be quite succinct: "Return to Hell, demon!"

[Smileygirl2000]

Same 🤣.

[Angelo75]

I'd say: Go f*ck yourself!

She left me quite broken to pieces without an explanation about why. It took years to figure it out and find out through others.

[Smileygirl2000]

😃 same !

[Joshydavid25]

Depends on what she would be calling me for exactly.. If it was just to catch up... Well... Yeah.. If it were to get my belongings after 4 years... Then uh.. Too late.. 😂😂..

[MissSunshine2]

Honestly? I'd block all of them, all over again. History never repeats.

[Smileygirl2000]

Me too!! Lol

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Calling would be a bit much for the context, but texting is fine, because it was a calm breakup

[slatyb]

My ex-wife? I don't answer calls from unknown numbers.

[Smileygirl2000]

🤣🤣 good one

[Nikki1989]

We talk all the time. Still best of friends.

[WhitneySnow]

Depends which ex. But I wouldn’t leave my current partner for any of them.

[exitseven]

I would just ask her what she called me for. It has been 30 years.

[msc545]

I would be polite and then say, "Please don't call me again."

[Smileygirl2000]

Yep same

[kinks1951]

Depends on which ex, most of them i would have a normal how are you

[choco-latte]

I won’t pick up because I’m married

[lilBigPotato]

Obviously would depend on what they want.

[Kelly6]

@Smileygirl2000 Will ask him why he called

[TonyMetal___1986]

Probably i won't reply!

[Smileygirl2000]

Me either

[TonyMetal___1986]

👍🏻👍🏻

[AgentG111]

Which ex? And doubt I can post it!

[Smileygirl2000]

How would I know?

[AgentG111]

I honestly have nothing good to say to any 3 ex wives.

[Smileygirl2000]

Then there ya go lol 😆 don't reply

[AgentG111]

;-] .

[jamesgoldman]

How life these days and what can I do for you

[Paige2006]

I wouldn't answer

[Anonymous]

I don't have an ex.

[Agape93]

Depends on the ex.

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Who this?

[Smileygirl2000]

🤣🤣

[FrodoSkywalker007]

Bye bye

[Smileygirl2000]

Same

[LC75LC71]

Wrong number.

[Smileygirl2000]

Yep lol same