Sometimes I don't say jack crap to my ex-girlfriends. My ex-girlfriends has broken my heart to the point where Elmer's glue wouldn't be able to fix it. Even if they do call, I would ask them what do they want. Some would ask me how am I doing, someone asked me to take them back, some would text me repeatedly to the point where I would destroy my phone just to get another one through the warranty, and some I would just block and not talk to them period. You see in a relationships both Partners gets two chances maybe three if the partner is tolerable and forgiving. But when both Partners abused each other in a relationship that's where the line is drawn and broken up. Most people including my family saying that people take kindness for weakness or for their advantage and they abused it over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over time again. Nobody has committed in a relationship, that's why they cheat because after two to three years or two to three months they eventually grow do I need to find someone else that can spark the love back into them. I swear to God, breakups, cheating, and divorces in any relationship except animals brings sexual pleasure to Satan 3rd General Lust of the 7 Deadly Sins. Who loves to inordinate and illicit sexual desires from and on others.
Aside from one psycho that I never want to hear of again, all my girlfriends were good people. I've been happily married now for over 25 years, but I'd be thrilled to reconnect and see how their lives have turned out.
I'm actually Facebook friends with my very first girlfriend. We've spoken several times over the years. We originally got together when I was 16 and she was 14. She's a happy grandma now.
17 years after I got married, a lady I virtually lived with for over a year, found me on Facebook 20 years after the last time we had spoken. She was the only woman besides my wife that I ever loved with my heart and soul, and she loved me. We even spoke a few times on the phone. My heart soared at the sound of her voice. I was elated to be in touch and to know that she was happy and pursuing her dreams. About five years later, I heard that she had died from a sudden medical problem at age 55. I was devastated. There is a hole in my heart that will never heal.
Depends which ex.
My first one, I would be shocked because I havenāt heard from him in literally 2 years. He was a great guy but had a lot of unresolved issues. I would probably say that itās good to hear from him and that I hope heās doing well.
My other ex, I wouldnāt be surprised because after the last breakup, he didnāt stop texting me. And when he found out I moved on, he stalked and harassed me and my boyfriend. He got a cease and desist order, so he stopped. Sooo, if he got a hold of me, he would be facing jail time.
Trick question sir: all my exes are blocked and deleted.
They couldn't contact me if they wanted to, lol. I have an app on my phone that blocks unknown numbers from calling me to keep the crazies and telemarketers at bay... and exes, not that any of them would be stupid enough to want to chat with me again.
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Depends on which ex. I may be inclined to entertain the situation to resolve my own feelings but that's about it.
Well, he certainly wouldn't be invited to my wedding, that's for sure.
Best thing is to say, well how are you? And launch into a litany of the good things you're doing for yourself and hope he or she has similar things to say. Then close up with, well, it was nice hearing from you, I have to go. Send a Christmas card! Or some such mild good will!
Living well is the best revenge!
If they could, I'd ignore it. It's been years and both my self and my life have changed a lot. That and I have put a lot of work into improving my life and working on myself. So I'm not willing to risk that by letting a ex back into my life. So I'm going to play it safe and leave the walls up.
I say, "what's a lying, cheating, thieving, two timing slut like you contacting me for?"
Then I'd hang up or whatever... ignore her. Literally nothing to talk about the women is disgusting.
Depends on the reason of break up. If it was because of innocent reason like loosing feelings or something which didn't had anyone's fault then I will reply back. If the break up was due to cheating or something like that then I'm blocking that person. It also depends whether I'm in a relationship that time or not.
The only ex who ever texts me is my ex-husband.
And while I loath the man, out of consideration for our children, I'm always polite but also always terse.
So, my contribution to the conversations are usually something like "Hey. What's up? Well, I guess so (or absolutely not or I'll think about it). Ok bye."
Any other ex, I'd see what he wanted - make a point of saying something like "Hold on my husband's calling me" - and go from there.
I would be shocked.
Because our last contact I made it clear it was final.
When he decided to ruin my birthday months later pretending to be his girlfriend, texting and emailing me.
It just highlighted why i ended it!
He would have to be dying to really gain some kind of response from me. Because I sure as hell know he won't be apologising sincerely.
I've grown too much to even consider going back to something that clearly didn't work. I wouldn't even entertain the idea of a friendship with the guy.
Everybody's situation and circumstances are unique though, I personally keep my past in the past.
Id say, why are you contacting me, what do you want. Usually ex's only contact you because they want to get back with you or to have sex. I've never gone back to an ex and don't think I ever will.
I would ask her if she needed me and then do whatever I have to do to get her out of my life again.
She crossed a line and aside from an emergency, I want nothing to do with her anymore.
My ex-wife and I have three grown kids, and our divorce was amicable. If she called or texted, I would find out what she wanted and talk with or text back to her... very politely. Each of us texts the other on our birthdays and major holidays anyways.
Iād read it but not respond. Let his own mind ruining his day and jump to conclusions
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Seriously I'm not sure. Things ended in a bad way, not the way I would have wanted (I was a very late bloomer, she had been great for me to work through certain issues i had, I really trusted her, but things fell apart so quickly). In some ways I have nothing to say to her. Others I have a lot of questions (not that I would believe any answers she gave). I dont think we will ever speak again.
Depends which ex. I think with one, I would probably respond to a text, depending on what was said. I donāt think I would respond to a call right away.
I think I would be polite to another, but I would probably end the text pretty quickly, though I think Iād be pretty pissed off that someone gave her my number.
To several others, Iād be friendly. I admit itād be mostly small talk, though - I donāt see any real friendships developing.
Well considering I almost married the dude and then cut it off a few weeks agoā¦ it would be too soon.
We ended things are good terms. We wanted different things out of marriage. We had a beautiful breakup, it wasnāt ugly or resentful. He still didnāt want the relationship to end, but he respected my decision and let me go. So I would probably ignore the message to help us both move on.
I asked how he's doing, asked about his family, how they are, about the health issues they had. About how his career is going, and marriage. He did reach out to me to say sorry for not being kind to me during my depression. he wasn't unkind, I was mean and broke up with him. He found someone a few months later and married her. This kind of humbled me in a way.
Depends on what he has to say. We ended on good terms so I don't have any bad blood against him. My current boyfriend on the other hand tho... his ex reached out to him and they ended up talking on the phone until super late lol
Not sure. If my first ex called or texted, I wouldn't respond and I wouldn't pick up the phone but if the second one called or texted, I'd think about responding or answering the call. Not sure what I'd say but there's only a chance of conversation if he has changed.
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