Sometimes I don't say jack crap to my ex-girlfriends. My ex-girlfriends has broken my heart to the point where Elmer's glue wouldn't be able to fix it. Even if they do call, I would ask them what do they want. Some would ask me how am I doing, someone asked me to take them back, some would text me repeatedly to the point where I would destroy my phone just to get another one through the warranty, and some I would just block and not talk to them period. You see in a relationships both Partners gets two chances maybe three if the partner is tolerable and forgiving. But when both Partners abused each other in a relationship that's where the line is drawn and broken up. Most people including my family saying that people take kindness for weakness or for their advantage and they abused it over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over time again. Nobody has committed in a relationship, that's why they cheat because after two to three years or two to three months they eventually grow do I need to find someone else that can spark the love back into them. I swear to God, breakups, cheating, and divorces in any relationship except animals brings sexual pleasure to Satan 3rd General Lust of the 7 Deadly Sins. Who loves to inordinate and illicit sexual desires from and on others.
Aside from one psycho that I never want to hear of again, all my girlfriends were good people. I've been happily married now for over 25 years, but I'd be thrilled to reconnect and see how their lives have turned out.
I'm actually Facebook friends with my very first girlfriend. We've spoken several times over the years. We originally got together when I was 16 and she was 14. She's a happy grandma now.
17 years after I got married, a lady I virtually lived with for over a year, found me on Facebook 20 years after the last time we had spoken. She was the only woman besides my wife that I ever loved with my heart and soul, and she loved me. We even spoke a few times on the phone. My heart soared at the sound of her voice. I was elated to be in touch and to know that she was happy and pursuing her dreams. About five years later, I heard that she had died from a sudden medical problem at age 55. I was devastated. There is a hole in my heart that will never heal.
Depends which ex.
My first one, I would be shocked because I havenāt heard from him in literally 2 years. He was a great guy but had a lot of unresolved issues. I would probably say that itās good to hear from him and that I hope heās doing well.
My other ex, I wouldnāt be surprised because after the last breakup, he didnāt stop texting me. And when he found out I moved on, he stalked and harassed me and my boyfriend. He got a cease and desist order, so he stopped. Sooo, if he got a hold of me, he would be facing jail time.
@Hu64dcbkk I think you read wrong. I donāt talk to my exes.
Trick question sir: all my exes are blocked and deleted.
They couldn't contact me if they wanted to, lol. I have an app on my phone that blocks unknown numbers from calling me to keep the crazies and telemarketers at bay... and exes, not that any of them would be stupid enough to want to chat with me again.
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u Some of them, I would respond with āreturn to hell, demon!ā
Depends on which ex. I may be inclined to entertain the situation to resolve my own feelings but that's about it.
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Well, he certainly wouldn't be invited to my wedding, that's for sure.
Best thing is to say, well how are you? And launch into a litany of the good things you're doing for yourself and hope he or she has similar things to say. Then close up with, well, it was nice hearing from you, I have to go. Send a Christmas card! Or some such mild good will!
Living well is the best revenge!
I cannot claim to have said this. It was someone famous from the Algonquin Round Table, I believe. Likely Dorothy Parker of, "You can never be too rich or too thin." THough the "too thin" has been debunked by sad cases of anorexia... The too rich still holds. You can do a lot of good with a lot of money AND still have a lot of fun.
If they could, I'd ignore it. It's been years and both my self and my life have changed a lot. That and I have put a lot of work into improving my life and working on myself. So I'm not willing to risk that by letting a ex back into my life. So I'm going to play it safe and leave the walls up.
I say, "what's a lying, cheating, thieving, two timing slut like you contacting me for?"
Then I'd hang up or whatever... ignore her. Literally nothing to talk about the women is disgusting.
Depends on the reason of break up. If it was because of innocent reason like loosing feelings or something which didn't had anyone's fault then I will reply back. If the break up was due to cheating or something like that then I'm blocking that person. It also depends whether I'm in a relationship that time or not.
Id say, why are you contacting me, what do you want. Usually ex's only contact you because they want to get back with you or to have sex. I've never gone back to an ex and don't think I ever will.
Lol same I wouldn't want to give me up either hahaha
The only ex who ever texts me is my ex-husband.
And while I loath the man, out of consideration for our children, I'm always polite but also always terse.
So, my contribution to the conversations are usually something like "Hey. What's up? Well, I guess so (or absolutely not or I'll think about it). Ok bye."
Any other ex, I'd see what he wanted - make a point of saying something like "Hold on my husband's calling me" - and go from there.
I would be shocked.
Because our last contact I made it clear it was final.
When he decided to ruin my birthday months later pretending to be his girlfriend, texting and emailing me.
It just highlighted why i ended it!
He would have to be dying to really gain some kind of response from me. Because I sure as hell know he won't be apologising sincerely.
I've grown too much to even consider going back to something that clearly didn't work. I wouldn't even entertain the idea of a friendship with the guy.
Everybody's situation and circumstances are unique though, I personally keep my past in the past.
I would ask her if she needed me and then do whatever I have to do to get her out of my life again.
She crossed a line and aside from an emergency, I want nothing to do with her anymore.
No, believe it or not once you're in you're always in. When I get the batcall I put my feelings to the side and answer. Even if I would rather eat glass.
My ex-wife and I have three grown kids, and our divorce was amicable. If she called or texted, I would find out what she wanted and talk with or text back to her... very politely. Each of us texts the other on our birthdays and major holidays anyways.
Iād read it but not respond. Let his own mind ruining his day and jump to conclusions
Ruin*
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Seriously I'm not sure. Things ended in a bad way, not the way I would have wanted (I was a very late bloomer, she had been great for me to work through certain issues i had, I really trusted her, but things fell apart so quickly). In some ways I have nothing to say to her. Others I have a lot of questions (not that I would believe any answers she gave). I dont think we will ever speak again.
Depends which ex. I think with one, I would probably respond to a text, depending on what was said. I donāt think I would respond to a call right away.
I think I would be polite to another, but I would probably end the text pretty quickly, though I think Iād be pretty pissed off that someone gave her my number.
To several others, Iād be friendly. I admit itād be mostly small talk, though - I donāt see any real friendships developing.
There is 5 of them, I'll pick my favourite for the cinematic effects.
I'll probably be a mess, I'll not know how to act, might hint that I miss her but never actually say it, being the one who dumped her makes me feel like a criminal although it had to be done, this Will be very difficult for me (again)
Well considering I almost married the dude and then cut it off a few weeks agoā¦ it would be too soon.
We ended things are good terms. We wanted different things out of marriage. We had a beautiful breakup, it wasnāt ugly or resentful. He still didnāt want the relationship to end, but he respected my decision and let me go. So I would probably ignore the message to help us both move on.
On good terms*
I asked how he's doing, asked about his family, how they are, about the health issues they had. About how his career is going, and marriage. He did reach out to me to say sorry for not being kind to me during my depression. he wasn't unkind, I was mean and broke up with him. He found someone a few months later and married her. This kind of humbled me in a way.
Depends on what he has to say. We ended on good terms so I don't have any bad blood against him. My current boyfriend on the other hand tho... his ex reached out to him and they ended up talking on the phone until super late lol
Turns out they were just arguing bc his ex texted him only to cuss him out and my boyfriend wasnāt having any of it lmao
Not sure. If my first ex called or texted, I wouldn't respond and I wouldn't pick up the phone but if the second one called or texted, I'd think about responding or answering the call. Not sure what I'd say but there's only a chance of conversation if he has changed.
I have an ex that I still have feelings for. I still care about him. So I would respond and ask how he is doing.
You miss me but you don't value me. You are my past.
Short, sweet and to the point. Thanks!
u I regularly chat with my most recent ex (weāve been split for over a year). We continued being friends after splitting because he was my best friend before we started going out. Itās completely platonic.
I'd say "Sorry, Taylor. I don't care if you HAVE won 11 Grammys and sold about 40 million albums. We're through. Just quit writing songs about our breakup."
I'd be silent for as long as I can to hear everything they have to say, and somewhat being experienced in this, you do not drag it on, on text. Ask if you can meet for a meal or at a public place or else it'll be a lot of feelings but with no action cause you guys will send long paragraphs but won't actually talk cause that would be inconvenient at some point
Iāll read it then block. They dont deserve a response. But one did have his sister call me a few months ago and she was like āHi, we used to work together.ā And im thinking, you lyin ass hoe, I know your voice. But I don't know maybe he just wanted to know if i was still breathing since we ended things before covid hit. Well fck him cause i didn't give a rats ass if he was still gasping for air
Get the *explicit* away from me. Then again my ex shouldn't due to me taking not only an order of protection but also a restraining order. Plus he's in jail so we should be good.
He has unfortunately contacted me (and stalked) and did go against both forms which is why he's in jail
That seriously depends on what ex - and why they contacted me.
I have one ex I would hope never to hear from ever again, and an ex I would be happy to hear from.
He actually did recently and he just wanted to hook up while ofc I was hoping for a relationship. I went no contact AGAIN🥲
I only have one "EX" and she currently is in a Palliative care facility and not expected to live much longer! We spoke last January and are at peace with each other. I have no plans to visit her. I get updates from either her brother or oldest daughter. Terri has metastatic breast cancer and there is nothing more that can be done. Ladies, PLEASE take care to get mammograms!
They're all blocked due to harassment. Women have a hard time facing rejection, drives them crazy
I would respond back and keep it cordial but not go into any deep details about my life/how I am.
Honestly, my first ex? She can go screw herself. I'll delete it and block her number. As far as my 2nd I'd respond. Really no thought. We had issues but she was the one who got away
For me personally, I would tell them that I am happy and doing well and I wish the same to them. I realize that doesnāt apply to all exes whatsoever, because we all ended those relationships for different reasons.
They did, but it wasnāt a terrible/horrific ending
It has been such a long time I would want to know what she wants.
I would read if it's not too long and delete it instantly.
Quit shuffling and deal. Why are you really hitting me up?
Iād delete without reading the text. I donāt go backwards.
Honestly be kind to them its so stupid why people block their exes we are mature humans
I wouldn't read it, answer it, or respond. Straight to the trash bin
m I'm still in touch with all four ex-girlfriends... two of them are my best friends
last we've been in touch happened between two days ago and two months ago
what about? just casual stuff that friends do talk about... lol
They don't have my number, but if they did, I'd block them.
Depends on which ex. I might small talk a bit with one, the other is just best not to respond to.
I would tell her that it's all cool, but i don't want to try again or even talk for that matter and that i hope she finds someone who fits her.
Spoiler alert: she won't
"Dafaq you want, n*gga?"
It would not happen, my phone number has changed more than once since my last relationship.
Wow those d*cks mustve been pretty bad after having mine huh
It would be a nice conversation we left on good terms
We share custody of the kids, so we talk all the time. No big deal.
AAAAH A ZOMBIE I THOUGHT I PAYED GUADA CHAI 300 KILOS TO BURY YOU IN MALI
now i have to get chainsaw jack to finish the job
You have reached a number that is out of service, if you believe this message was an error, please hand up, and never call again
Well depending on witch ex I would tell them to go fuck a tree
I would hit the down volume button because Iām sure she would be manipulative and subversive just like the other times she tried to contact meā¦. even after I got married to someone else.
I wish we could have been open about our attraction
Well considering he was a violent stalker I would tell him to never contact me again and block his number
Uhm I would answer him normal and yeah have normal friendly conversation, we are on good terms with each other
It if it's about our kids other conversations is of limits. He is so into Amway I have no desire to hear from him.
I would probably tell her to go away and never contact me again.
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