My boyfriend keeps sneaking around with his ex—can I ever trust him?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend said to me he's going to change. But I don't think I trust it. 4 days ago, I found out he was still seeing the mother of his child. She said he was speeding to get to her, that he watches her go all the way into the house before pulling off. I'm torn into pieces. He said he wouldn't NEVER see her again.

I don't know!. It's just too much.

I went through his phone and he said to her "you gave me a lot of energy to fix my roof. You make me feel good".

I don't know if I should trust him again. . He keeps on sneaking around with her while he's with me...

Updates

3 h

And yes, he slept with her plenty of times behind my back.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you spot red flags before they wreck your heart, gorgeous.

This is not “change,” this is cheating with extra steps. Secret meetups, emotional flirting, lovebombing her, then lying to you? That’s a trust graveyard.

You’re not crazy; your gut is screaming. If you stay, you’ll babysit his drama with his ex. If you leave, you protect your peace, self‑respect, and future.

[AviatorTom]

Is he having sex with her? Or following her to get a glimpse of his child? There is a strong natural bond between a parent and child.

[Asker]

Yes. He had sex with her. 🤦

[HollyK21]

I’m not sure how many times someone has to cheat before you know you can’t trust them. Just silliness.

[Purpleronnie]

There’s no need to ignore how this makes you feel. If something in the situation leaves you uncomfortable, that feeling matters. You’re allowed to decide what feels respectful and acceptable to you, and you don’t have to push past your own limits to keep the peace.

What matters most is your sense of self-respect and the boundaries that help you feel secure. You can be thoughtful and fair without abandoning your own needs, and it’s okay to step back from anything that doesn’t sit right with you.

Either make peace with it , trusting him until proven guilty or move on.

[Amy10223]

Leave him. It doesn't sound good if she is telling you what he does, and the message he sent her on the phone.

[beenherebefore]

You need to dump this guy. He doesn't respect you. Let him go and be with his ex cuz he has commitment issues.

[Asker]

She was never his ex. Just a woman he met at high school when they were both 14🤦

[beenherebefore]

Regardless of that this guy doesn't respect you and the more you allow him to behave this way the less he'll respect you.

[LiamJHayden]

She's the mother of his child so he has to see her if he wants to see the kid. But if your instincts are telling you there is more to it, trust your instincts.

[Asker]

He's sleeping with her.

[WhitneySnow]

On the one hand, he has to see his kid. On the other hand, it seems clear that he’s cheating on you. I would not trust him.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like he shouldn't trust you. And parents who share a child are always going to see each other, so if you're not mature enough to handle that then you shouldn't be dating.

[Nikki1989]

You should know men by now. Most can't be trusted.

[Spencer10]

The real question should be why is this guy still your boyfriend?

[slatyb]

Sneaking? Apparently no, you can never trust him.

[Anonymous]

How does she look?

[Asker]

She's thick and pretty. 🤦

[Opinion Owner]

Ohhh and you?

[Opinion Owner]

Can you be more elaborate, and what’s your boyfriends type?

[Opinion Owner]

How do u know he had sex with her? U need to ask her for that. Guys boast about having sex with pretty girls

[Asker]

I know from their text messages.
He said "You must want to have sex"
She replied, "Yes, I do.
Then He asked her", where are you?"
😑
She replied:" that was great as usual "

[Opinion Owner]

Dude it can be meant in a funny way to. I texted aguy friend of mine saying he wanted sex ( meant with his girlfriend not me ) he was like haha yes am on my way for that (to his girlfriend)

[Asker]

I'm more on the petite side. She's bigger than me.

[Opinion Owner]

What’s his type by the way. How do u look

[Opinion Owner]

Ohhhh. How tall and heavy are u both? And your features?

[Asker]

He made a baby on me with her. 🤦

[Opinion Owner]

How tall and heavy are u both? And what features do u have? How is she better compatible with him

[canamlusciouslad73]

DUMP DAT DUDE !!!