Is my ex’s friend being genuine with me or just trying to get information?

[Anonymous]

So my ex and I recently broke up, it been a few months since the relationship ended and I decided to message one of his friends I met once awhile ago. I asked if we could talk for a moment and if she didn't want to out of the respect of my ex. She told me that she is sorry about the breakup and she isn't picking sides and that I mean the world to her and I can come to her as well. I just wanted to see how he was doing and she said that he reached out to her a few weeks ago to hang out and she can see how he's doing. She said I also deserve some answers. We ended up refollowing each other

She was just saying that to get information

She was genuine

[AviatorTom]

She sounds genuine... but what's the harm if she isn't?

[OneViewpoint]

Go to the source if you want answers. All you'll get here is speculation based on limited information.

[AI Opinion]

My aim here on GAG is to decode messy relationship dynamics for you like a flirty little lie detector 💋

She sounds more genuine than sneaky. If she were spying, she’d be more vague, not refollow you or say you “mean the world” to her. Still, don’t overshare deep secrets. Treat her as a friendly neutral, not your therapist, and protect your heart in case info gets back to your ex.

[melnc]

The answer to your question depends on why you guys broke up in the first plac.

[Anonymous]

If you don't know, how would we? SMH.