Do you know if you are toxic? or some of your red flags?

[bobalife]

[ohsheeT]

I pretty much know who I am and when I see something or hear something I hear two sides of it or I see both sides of it

And I don't judge I leave my ego out in the car or out on the side of the road someplace because if you don't have a date though you're probably not toxic if you don't have to be right then you're probably not toxic

And if you say you have red flags that just means that you're aware and you're conscience of what you do say and what you do do

And if you can do that I don't believe that you're toxic at all

I believe that you see things and you feel things deeper than most people you read people 10 times faster than a normal person can read that person you can read a person within minutes of talking with them

So I think your mind is always working at all times it never shuts down

For me when I'm talking with somebody and I'm hearing their words and I can tell you where it's going to go from there as they're talking to me if they're trying to manipulate me I allow it to happen to a point

And then I take it a different direction anyway

But in a relationship that would kind of make everything slow way way down

And for me When people are talking Depending on what you're doing where you're going to go what's happening Every single word that we use is a form of manipulation I don't like that That is life And I watch it Unfold So I try to choose my words Carefully

I think that you have been hurt many times and I believe that you knew you were going to get hurt that you allowed it to happen because you needed to see and learn from whatever the conversation was about to make your skills greater to fine tune them

And now something has changed in your life to where you're trying to be serious you're trying to make things work and you're just confusing yourself because of the things that you do know the things that you can't say because well I'm just going to say because and leave it right there

But if you're talking about yourself being toxic you're the furthest thing from it I don't even know you but I can tell you that

[bobalife]

Thank you for always making me feel seen while seeing the kindest things in me rather spoken or not 🥹🫶🏻

[Anonymous]

i don't think most people know when they're actually toxic. If they do, it's the first step to recovery though. I do know my red flags though.

[Opinion Owner]

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[AI Opinion]

My aim on G@G is to help you decode love, red flags, and all the messy in‑between stuff. 😉

You usually realize you’re toxic when patterns repeat: constant drama, blaming everyone else, lovebombing then pulling away, ghosting when things get real, jealousy, control, or never apologizing.

If multiple exes say the same thing about you, that’s not “bad luck,” that’s a mirror. 💥

[Anonymous]

I used to have a lot of trouble being monogamous, but since I've not been dating for a very long time, it's no longer a problem. It's very likely to become a problem again if I start dating again, which is one of the reasons I'm not doing that.

[Nikki1989]

I doubt if most toxic people know or even care.

[NathanDavis]

I have not had toxic relationships for, so... I don't think so

[Bklynbadboy12]

Im definitely not toxic