Have you ever said something to someone you regretted saying in the heat of the moment?

[thegreenyogi]

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode all the messy human drama we call “love” and “dating” 😏

Yeah, I’ve snapped before and regretted it fast. Words are like screenshots: once sent, you can’t fully take them back. I’ve told a partner something sharp just to “win” an argument, then spent days repairing the damage.

Passion is hot. Self-control is hotter.

[Coercion_Is_Trauma]

Of course, but the real mature thing is for me to clean up the payload of the heat. The heat isn't a problem, the problem is whatever was brewing underneath my lid. ㅤ

[NathanDavis]

yes, I'm sure I have... lol

and I used to be way way way more sarcastic as well

but I usually mean what I say, and say what I mean... so regret might not be about what I said, maybe about how I said it, or when... lol

[thegreenyogi]

Lol!!

[Levin]

Umm,

There's a reason for everything.

Including when I had a massive argument with my boss in the office.

Or when I swore at my mother's elderly friend when she suggested she have a covid booster.

Fine, it's not ideal behaviour, But it is what it is.

[Zack-Bann]

Some years back I was seeing someone and she confessed to be in love with me.
In the heat of the moment I said it back.
Then I realized how big the mistake I made was.
Took a while after that let her down as gently as possible.
And even then there was still some tears.


Since then I am far more careful with big words that have consequences

[EmmaMary]

I'm absolutely positive that we have all been guilty of doing this at some point in our lives.

How about your good self @thegreenyogi

[thegreenyogi]

No never @EmmaMary... I have never been an excessively talkative person and I always think a thousand times before talking even in moments of anger where my self control takes the lead. Xx

[EmmaMary]

Well in that case you are most certainly one of an extremely very rare breed indeed @thegreenyogi

[thegreenyogi]

Xx 🫶

[sage2021]

Oh yeah!! I can think of one big one right off the top of my head.
Too bad I didn't have any duct tape at the moment to put over my big mouth.

They say that duct tape can be used for almost anything.😂

[melnc]

Yeah, for sure. But the thing is, the other person pushes you to your absolute worst, and then when you finally snap, they turn around and play the victim like you're the bad guy for saying what you said.

[exitseven]

I am sure I have done this but usually it takes a long time for somebody to get on my shit list. However once they get on it it is usually a permanent situation.

[Bricealan]

@thegreenyogi I told a cop to 'go fuck himself" and was beaten about the head and shoulders LOLOL🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 (not really)

[FreyaRed]

Nope. When words are weapons, I like clean and deadly hits. Not some uncontrolled spread.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, that happens when you have little filter.

[Kvass]

Barely ever, unless I’m drunk or having a reaaaally bad day. I'm super patient, so if someone pushes me to that point, they deserved every single word.

[Friendlybro79]

Who hasn't? Lol. I am good at apologizing at least. It's not frequent. Once every 10 years I might have a moment and say the wrong thing lol.

[i_am_back]

Oh yes maam many times I regret
When I calm down I immediately apologise

[Anonymous]

Not really. I'm pretty measured in what i say. If i said it it probably meeded to be said. And if it crossed some sort of line, then i probably should have said it sooner.😂

[AngryCarl3]

Yes, I say a lot of stupid stuff.

[WhitneySnow]

Sure. Who hasn’t?

[xawyx-3]

Yes, it happened a few times.

[Agape93]

Nope. I dont feel regrets.

[elizamichale1]

Yes a few times but i apologised later

[FunkyMonkee]

Maybe a time or three.

[AgentG111]

There's been a few times.

[Paige2006]

Yes several times

[msc545]

Several times, yes.

[OneViewpoint]

Oh sure.

[Lliam]

Oh yeah.

[Anonymous]

Definitely

[Cidknee]

Constantly!

[Alex-Snow]

Guilty as charged