Girls, Have you ever been in a situationship?

[dougeats]

Was it you or him/her more so?

[Masie]

No, never. I haven't even dated up until this point and don't have an interest in it. I didn't in high school either. I am still focused on my education for now and will worry about a relationship and all that after I feel like my life is set.

So a situationship, as I understand them, wpuld make absolutely no sense for me since I also am not nor ever been sexually active. I should get something out of a relationship or situations situationship and if you look at both, I wouldn't.

[dougeats]

Nice that you're focused on your education. You have your entire life to focus on a relationship

[Masie]

That is exactly always how I looked at it. I have plenty of time.

I do very much want to settle down and have a family someday. I just want everything to be right for me personally.

[dougeats]

Yea, I get it. Thats very admirable! You midwest ladies got it all together!

[Masie]

Reckon it is 'cause us corn husking gals take care of the men folk 'til we go off for the book learnings.

Y'all come visit sometime if ya ain't been her 'fore!

[dougeats]

Yes! Thank you for sharing your MidWest verbiage!!! 😂😂😂

[Masie]

Haha you're welcome. I don't get an organic chance to use my hick a lot here.

[dougeats]

LOl nah thats not hick, thats just y'all's accent. 😉 When I hear hick I think of the people in the Appalachians living off the land lol

[Masie]

You don't know hive then. I do. 'Rpund them fellers all the time. 'Least if ya from rounds here. Ya don't know

[dougeats]

OMG lol now way! 🤣 All I understood was Ya don't know! And you are correct, I don't know hive 🤷🏻

[_Jenny_]

@dougeats Yes. but it feels like a relationship but without future plans

[DishLady]

No. I've been married, Dating-to-be-engaged. And Single. I don't tread in murky waters.

[Sonhadora]

I think I understand your question Hmm, well I've had connections that weren't fully defined, I can't say that I've chased I have given my time but only because I wanted to not because I was hoping for something that isn't there. I suppose I stay when the energy feels right and when the energy doesn't feel right, I don't chase I would move on. If you want access to someone, the dynamic has to be clear and reciprocal. I wouldn't stay in anything that doesn't grow me I hope this makes sense =)

[dougeats]

That makes total sense! 🥳

[queenofcardio]

Sometimes it's not even defined as a situationship. I don't always label what is if I'm just enjoying my time with someone.

[midnightmoon05]

Nope…

happily married.
only heard of the term here on gag.