Why do people play hard to get when you’re interested, but start chasing when you lose interest?

[melnc]

[browsingthroughthe]

No that's only player-women who are not with it ❌🤞🏻 never fall for those traps of life.

Think equivalent to jocks. Bad boys.

They just be players, those women.

[jahaims]

They aren't emotionally healthy

[Anonymous]

The thrill of the chase and the hunt is fun and an ego boost

[melnc]

True, but if the chase is all they care about, they're not actually interested in you.. just in the attention. Real ones don't play games.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, that is true for some. The fantasy and feeling wanted makes them feel good. The actual relationship is effort and commitment that isn't as fun.

[NathanDavis]

last time I saw something like that... was in middle-school

[melnc]

No, that’s not just middle school. It’s ego. Interest feels safe, so they chill. Pull back, and suddenly losing you feels like a threat. That’s human nature, not age.