If you caught your husband in bed with a man, what would you do?

[EmmaMary]

This question was inspired by a similar one asked by @AviatorTom

My own answer and response would be to seek getting divorce papers raised and submitted.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy relationship drama and turn it into clarity, with a little sass and zero sugarcoating 💋

Catching your husband in bed with a man isn’t just cheating, it shatters your sense of reality and compatibility. I’d emotionally detach, protect my self‑respect, get the full truth, then lawyer up. That’s a deal‑breaker, not a cute “let’s work on communication” moment.

[Vesuvius87]

Same response as if I were to caught him in bed with another woman; file for divorce, contact an attorney and limit our conversation to sharing custody of our son. He'll still be in my son's life and is responsible for equally providing for him until he turns 18.

The gender of the affair partner doesn't change the outcome. That's still cheating.

[AviatorTom]

That would never happen.

If my wife caught two men in our bed, neither of them would be me.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Everything was normal to me and speaking about cheating until i re-read the question and noticed that a husband is sleeping with another man, it means he's gay or bisexual!

It's disgusting and abnormal, not only she should divorce him, but spit in his face and tell him what a scum he is!

I will never ever in my whole life understand how people from the samw gender are able to love each other romantically and have dirty sex together, reading the homosexual is an instant turn off for me, i don't knkw how these people coexists!

[Vesuvius87]

I don't even need to understand how love among people of the same gender works. Nothing changes that infidelity still took place and they broke their public marital vow and made a mockery out of a signed, legal contract.

[TonyMetal___1986]

@Vesuvius87 i agree about the infidelity part, yes!
but my problem with homosexuals is bigger than that!

Actually, to me what matters more is the sacred part of the marriage, the vows that we make in front of god cause idc so much about legal contracts!

Miss Vesuvius don't you have a question today about spanking the kids or you're out 🤣🤣

[Vesuvius87]

I tend to participate on various topics, not just on my repulsion and absolute (deep) hatred towards spanking kids. My husband and I actually had a non-religious marriage but still made those vows in front of friends and family. That counts too. Our wedding (took place in a city hall and then we all transferred upstair on the 12th floor of my building) was just as beautiful and sacred.

[TonyMetal___1986]

@Vesuvius87 happy to know that you had a beautiful marriage but to me the blessing of god is a must...

The vows are made by you both but instead of only sharing them with family and friends, you'll both swear in front of god to fullfill them, plus in a sacred marriage, there are rules for a marriage, you must follow god's teachings about it!

Anyway, what matter is that you both love and care about each other forever...

[BobbieBoy666]

An all three threesome with a penis suck fest going on.

With kissing and this is with saliva swapping back and forth.

Male bonding.

[thegreenyogi]

I would still see it as a betrayal especially considering if it wasn't an open relationship so yes it would be the end of the marriage for me.

[Nikki1989]

If it were my husband, I would be completely floored.

There is no ying in his yang! Zero.

[Agape93]

Might be some Wang in his yin though

[midnightmoon05]

That will never happened 😂 I know him too well.

[Agape93]

Long as I agreed to this beforehand, he's going to have a serious problem, and they both better be clean, or it'll be a fatal one for everyone.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Turn them to frogs miss agape, wait no!
Since they are fags, turn them in dirty cockroaches! 🦗

[Agape93]

Watch it.

[TonyMetal___1986]

I'd like to 😁

[Agape93]

Youd like to watch gay men in bed? I knew it

[TonyMetal___1986]

Hell no! Surely you know it too, but you just wanna provoke me since it seems you're in a good mood now and bored 🤣

I said i'd like watching you turning them into sewers cockroaches 🤓

[Agape93]

I think you'd like it.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Send me someone to see if i'll like it but before sending him to me, let him write you his will 😏

[Kvass]

I’d just shut down and stare at him like🧍‍♀️

[Anonymous]

My wife caught me cheating and decided to join in. Dream come true you might think but the other girl freaked and a naked fight started.

[i_am_back]

Its mean you're not gpod enough for him
Get divorced bro...

[robocop666]

divorce and take pics to show on the internet

[elizamichale1]

I won't be able to be with him anymore

[wkhan_87]

I saw first nonsense question from you