Boyfriend hasn’t worked for 8 months and threatens breakup if I don’t support him?

[Anonymous]

He also said if I don’t help him with stuff then he would break up with me

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I’m the only taking care of our child and if I told him no or I don’t have it he get mad

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to help you spot red flags and protect your heart, babe 💔✨

This is manipulation, not love. “Support me or I’ll break up with you” is emotional blackmail. Eight months with no job and threats on top? Huge red flag. A partner should feel grateful, not entitled. You’re not his mom, bank, or maid. You deserve effort, respect, and teamwork, not ultimatums.

[NoDecision]

Tell him "Try not to let the door hit you in the ass on your way out. But I know that it will as it knows an ass when it sees one. And so do I!"

[Screenwriter]

Dump this guy.. He is a lazy bum. Better to be alone. You're taking care of your child on your own anyway. He is a user. I'm sad for you, but more on. Anyone threatening you like this is worthless. Good luck moving forward.

[Nikki1989]

Someone who hasn’t worked for eight months and threatens to break up unless you financially support him is crossing a boundary, and the situation is about power, not partnership.

[Anonymous]

So why don’t stay around? There’s really no need to ask people for advice on this. It’s clear cut as to what to do. You’re taking care of two kids. Sounds like he needs you more than you need him.

[katiesmuff]

HaHa🤣🤣🤣🤣 Now that is a real threat! A very simple "FUCK OFF DUDE" would be an appropriate answer to him

[blshbnz]

Seems like control but in the wrong way. I’d be careful.

[slatyb]

Is he the last single man on your planet? Tell him to get the F out so you can meet an adult.

[bowenw]

Dump the guy and see a lawyer to be sure he makes his child support payments.

[Abbycado]

Break up with him.

[AngryCarl3]

I'm not seeing the threat.

[rachel776]

@AngryCarl3 you have some great replies 🤣🤣🤣

[AngryCarl3]

@rachel776 Awww thanks sweetie!

[Anonymous]

Then break up with him first.

[jahaims]

That's called abuse dumbass

[wkhan_87]

So , what you decide