My boyfriend got a job at a café close to his house, and he works 8 hours (11 am till 6 pm) 3 days a week and ever since, we haven’t seen or talked to each other.
I work 4 days a week, and i also go to college at night. I always try and make time for him, even when I have a million things to do and even when I’m busy.
All he texts is the bare minimum like “hi” and “i love you”. He doesn’t bother making conversation or asking about my day.
If I try to start one, he claims he’s tired. I feel neglected in my relationship and I’m not sure what to do. I don’t wanna beg for more attention, cause I’ve been doing that even when he didn’t have a job. I’m not sure if I should break up or try and find a solution by talking to him? I’m worried he will think I’m overreacting.
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Fine if he’s tired after work and need a moment to collect himself but he should still be able to talk to you everyday. At least for a bit. The days he’s not working I have no idea why he has that excuse unless man’s very depressed or something and just sleeps but the way you describe it sounds awful.
He doesn’t. All he says is “I love you.” and it goes on until he stops replying or falls asleep again :/
I am sorry you’re going through this and I hope it gets better. If it doesn’t you will have to try and bring it up somehow because it’s not okay
Busy? He works 3 days a week. What is he doing the other 4 that’s making him so tired?