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Haven’t seen my boyfriend in 3 weeks and he cancelled tomorrows plans last minute, when is it time to let go?

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I’m so disappointed. We have been fighting on and off mostly bc he hasn’t made time for me and then didn’t offer dates either until last week when he canceled on me Tuesday. Here we are a week later. He got me so excited. I planned a whole day and now I am crying myself to sleep. He said his SSN was hacked into per email from his back. He is under stress and not to stress him when he basically cancelled.

I’m crushed because I have been experiencing my own stress with work. I am being bullied, etc. I needed this time with him. He knows. And it’s why we been bickering. Bc he knows me schedule and helped me take off for PTO this week but scheduled himself to work nearly everyday. On top of that we now work opposite schedules for the next 2 weeks. He knows my schedule too. I asked him so many times and I told him that I am thinking about leaving because I am feeling neglected and not prioritized. He tried to “make up for it,” and had me planning tomorrow.

I am so sad, my stomach is upset. I really don’t think he loves me like he says he does. He can barely text as is. We do text through the day, maybe every so many hours. That’s like the only form of communication we have. He does have a demanding job in hospital. But can hardly call, maybe every 3-4 days for less than 10 minutes in the morning or at night.

I’m heartbroken. I just feel disappointed. He’s hurt me a few times and made up for it. I always forgive him. We’ve been together for 3-4 years. He tells me he loves me daily. I don’t know though. I need advise. Am I overreacting? I’m really sad.

Haven’t seen my boyfriend in 3 weeks and he cancelled tomorrows plans last minute, when is it time to let go?
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