Boyfriend is ignoring me since last 10 days. He says he is stressed. Does he wants to break up?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend suddenly started to speak less with me due to some major stress at his family and work.
Now he is has started to ignore me completely since last 5 days.
It's been 10 days since all this started before that everything was going fine. Even our last conversation was normal.
He is fine with his friends as he updates his status sometimes. And I see him online on social media.
I don't understand what did I do to him and I feel he wants to break up with me.

[NamerOfStars]

Maybe- but maybe not. If he doesn't want to talk to you at all, are there others you might be able to get information from? His friends or family, perhaps? It might simply be powerfully stressors that he's reacting badly to. That shouldn't mean ignoring you, but it's usually best to get a good idea of what's going on before taking strong action.

[Asker]

No there is no one from whom I can get information.
Last when I had a chat with him he said about his family issues and work and he is not in a mood to talk. So I left him on his own and gave him space. After 3 days I texted him asking how is he doing. He replied but didn't speak much.
Then one day I had an emergency and needed help from him.
I texted him and called him but he disconnected my calls. And when he read my texts that there is an emergency he didn't even reply to me asking what happend. After that I haven't contacted him. Its been 4 days now.

[NamerOfStars]

That's not a good sign. Do you have any specific knowledge of what's going on that's got him so stressed?

[Asker]

Yes I know what's going on with him which is making him stressed

[Wise4myage]

I say give him an ultimatum. He either returns to normal or your done.