I have a crush on someone who is 33 years older than me. How should I tell him I like him?

[Anonymous]

He’s divorced, a widower, handsome, and kind, but even though the people around me say that this isn’t appropriate, I love him. How should I tell him how I feel?

[Anonymous]

You have psychological issues. He will know you do as soon as you tell him. You should still tell him. Maybe he will help you find help. ㅤ

[Asker]

Come on, don’t belittle my feelings. Why would liking someone be a psychological problem just because they’re older than me? Besides, love has no age, dude.

[Opinion Owner]

Love has no gender either. Sexuality has. If it matters to you that he is a male then it is not love.

[Asker]

What does that have to do with anything? Do you like a woman purely for sex? Of course you’re a man, I would expect that from you. Besides, why would I want just any man? My heart loves him. Sex isn’t a requirement.

[Opinion Owner]

Why don't you love a woman his age? Because it is sex based.

[Asker]

Get the hell out of my comments. What am I saying and what are you saying? You’re making pointless comments and saying irrelevant things. It’s ridiculous. I didn’t ask people like you this question.

[Opinion Owner]

You don't want to be told that what you call mystical ageless love is just emotional lust.

[Marshast]

LMAO tell him and find out.


PS joking; he is probably gonna be like child I don’t have time to babysit your Young A$$. Where your daddy at? 🫣😁😁😁

[Asker]

Do you seriously think you’re fucking funny, you old senile bitch? Nobody fucking wants you, so just because you’re an old hag who’s been left on the shelf doesn’t mean you get to be jealous of young girls. And don’t you ever fucking belittle someone else’s feelings again, you fucking slut.

[Marshast]

🤣 LMAO!

[Anonymous]

girll don't be ridiculous, are you crazy? Why would you want an old man when there are young men around?

[Asker]

I don’t want a young guy, I want him.

[AviatorTom]

Ask him to have dinner with you, and during dinner, tell him exactly how you feel.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy feelings and turn them into honest connection, so let’s dive in, cutie 💫

Age-gap crushes can feel intense, almost like lovebombing your own heart. Be calm and mature with him. Say something like, “I really enjoy being around you and I’ve developed feelings for you, but I also respect your boundaries and your situation.”

Then watch his reaction closely. If he hesitates, pulls back, or treats the age gap as a red flag, don’t chase, don’t beg, don’t push. That’s your answer. If he reciprocates, insist on going slow and keeping things respectful, because a big age difference can get complicated fast.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life if you like someone you shouldn’t be afraid to tell them & in life if you never try you will never know. Be open & honest with him & tell him how you feel about him.

[slatyb]

Do what adults do, invite him to coffee or lunch or whatever. That basically says "I like you, how do you feel about me?"

[FunkyMonkee]

Just tell him.
My girlfriend is in the same boat except that she told me how she feels about me.

[Iron_Man]

a lot of girls on here love older men, a lot older you go up to the guy and flirt with him and smile. He’ll get the idea

[Asker]

Unfortunately, it’s not that easy. When I do that, he’ll probably get the wrong idea.

[Iron_Man]

Why don’t you drop hints about there’s a certain movie coming out in the movie theater and you would like to go see it Its coming out and your friends are all busy this weekend and I would like to go see the movie.

[Asker]

I’ll try it, thank you for your comment.

[Iron_Man]

You’re very welcome. Good luck.

[MasterKS]

Ask him straight, who knows he also like that.

[MrChinaski]

Ask him out. Same as everyone else.

[Anonymous]

Just like you just told us.

[Asker]

You guys are different, it won’t be easy for me to tell the person I have a crush on.

[Abbycado]

You tell him?

[Asker]

What?

[In_Trance]

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