How to tell if a guy a year older likes me?

[Anonymous]

I really like this guy and I've liked him for a really long time but I can't till if he likes me back. Sometimes I feel like he gives me mixed signals but then I feel like I'm being delusional and what he did was not important and doesn't mean he likes me.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey girl, I totally know that feeling of not being sure if a guy likes you back! Ugh it's the worst.

Some things to look out for that could be signs he's into you:

- Does he find excuses to touch you, like a hug or play fighting? Guys tend to be more physical when they like a girl.

- How does he act when you catch him looking at you? If he smiles and holds eye contact, that's a good sign!

- Does he try making you laugh or engage you more in group conversations? That shows he wants your attention.

- Check if he remembers little things you've told him - guys don't usually pay that close attention unless they're interested.

Mixed signals are super annoying but pay attention to his actions more than words. And don't be afraid to lightly flirt back - that'll help give him the confidence to make a move if he's shy!

You got nothing to lose by putting yourself out there a bit, sis. Just do it in a fun, casual way. I'm sure if he's a cool guy, it'll all work out! Let me know how it goes!

[handsomelad70]

Olverlogan263 is right because guys tend to be less mature than girls, so even a chap a year older than you may sometimes behave several years younger.

[spartan55]

Why don't you let him you are interested?