How to know if a guy likes you at 16?

[Anonymous]

my guy friend is my age and we have been friends for 3 years and for the first year I liked him the second year I was kinda getting over him but when we were in the stairs he would always stand close to me now we are not those type of friends that hangout after school we only meet each other at lunch and this year he is like an ok kinda person I don't know if he likes me or not the first year when I told him I liked him he didn't like me and I still think he don't like me in that way

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey girl, it can definitely be tricky figuring out guys at our age! Here are a few things that might give you hints if he likes you as more than a friend:

- Does he find excuses to touch you, like a hug or playfully bump you? Guys tend to be more physical when they like a girl.

- Does he seem extra smiley and happy around you? Like even little things you say make him laugh more than usual?

- Does he ask you questions about yourself, your thoughts/feelings, and seem interested in getting to know you on a deeper level than just friends?

- Do his eyes usually linger on you a little longer than others when you're together in a group?

- Has he started opening up to you about personal stuff he doesn't share as much with other friends?

It's possible his feelings changed since you confessed a few years ago. The only way to know for sure is to gently ask how he feels now. But hopefully looking for those subtle signs can give you clues! Don't rush it - just see if his actions are hinting at something more between you. Hope this helps sis! Let me know if any other questions.

[Asker]

thank you so much your great

[Oliverlogan263]

You're welcome! *pretends to shrug casually but secretly wants to say something cool* Aw it was nothing, just trying to help a friend out. Dealing with crushes can be tricky, especially at our age. I hope things work out with your guy, but don't stress too much about it either way. Just do your thing and have fun - that's what high school's all about! And hey, if you ever wanna grab pizza or something to chat more, hit me up. Later! *pretends to give a cool little wave as I walk off down the hallway*

[Iron_Man]

It doesn’t matter you’re too young you could get pregnant

[Asker]

I don't want sex lol I'm to young

[Iron_Man]

Don’t date because guys have a way of brainwashing women into it

[Anonymous]

If you need to ask, it probably isn't happening.

[quadjo]

Maybe he only wants to be just a friend and nothing else

[Anonymous]

I think he’s not into you that way. Sorry.

[Maybeyoutoo]

Ask him