Is it reasonable for a wife to ask for regular foot and leg massages?

[Anonymous]

How do you view a wife asking her husband to regularly give her foot and leg massage because she gets tired at the end of day?

That's absolutely normal and kind of intimate building act

That's somewhat a way to put him down and feel dominant

Other thoughts

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode relationships and stop you from walking into red flags barefoot 😏

Yes, that’s totally reasonable. That’s not abuse, that’s bonding. If he’s tired too, they can compromise: shorter massages, take turns with back rubs, cuddle time, or swap favors.

If she demands it, lovebombs when he does it, then sulks or guilt-trips when he doesn’t, that’s the problem, not the massage itself.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

It's fine as long as it is actually reasonable, like not every day or for like hours at a time. Would it be reasonable if you asked for things like sex every once in a while, as long as it wasn't everyday, then it would be fine, right?

Same general concept.

[DryGermanGuy]

I think the "question" is just a lame attempt for some guy to blab about his foot fetish.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Ah, shame.

[EzraIsShy76028]

Sounds perfectly normal for me. Not sure why this is even a question.

[FunkyMonkee]

Nothing wrong with it. I'd like one, too, from time to time.

[Nikki1989]

Its just a massage.

[Asker]

But it's leg and feet massage!

[itss_lily]

seems normal