If a shy, quirky man over 35 really likes you, will he always find a way to talk to you?

[Anonymous]

Is this true.. especially for men over 35… if he’s quirky, shy etc

so far I notice that this guy tries to be in my proximity discreetly, complimented my shoes, eye contact… sometimes I think he sees my presence as a safe space but I don’t know , I notice he’s wearing the same brand shoes he complimented mine on..

I know this all means nothing if he didn’t talk to me

[scott04sa22]

Depending on the circumstances he might be too shy on asking you out or he has fears of rejections. He might also fear you have too many men competing with you.

[Asker]

Nevermind he replaced me with my coworker.. attention wise. Soon as something better comes along they avoid

[scott04sa22]

I'm sorry to hear that. That has happened to me too. My coworker at the time couldn't stop talking about my follow coworker I work with. She couldn't stop talking about how bad she wants to date him and sleep with him.

[Asker]

It’s my fault for being so stupid because ik that I’m someone who is never chosen and my coworker knew I liked him… but she’s loud, pretty.. she’s easy to like and I’m easy to put to the side and forget.. after seeing him around for 3 months hoping we would talk

[Asker]

Welp now time to focus on my sex work career.. love isn’t for me.. women like me

[scott04sa22]

Same here the love department doesn't agree with me at all either. I don't get chosen from women at all either. The women always picks guys who are more attractive and hotter then me. The unattractive bbws or heavier women are the same way too.

[scott04sa22]

Hiring escorts are hits and misses but they mostly prefer "transaction relationships" then actual relationship with you.

[Asker]

It hurts a lot but I’d rather suck 1000 dicks than love one man

[scott04sa22]

I don't blame you

[scott04sa22]

Thank you for the superb!

[Anonymous]

I don't know about over 35. Eventually, a guy like that may force himself to talk to you. Hopefully you show him some grace if he screws the whole thing up.

[Anonymous]

His age is not relevant but yes, he probably likes you

[Asker]

But if he liked me enough he would talk to me or ask me out

[In_Trance]

So... He didn't talk to you?
What did you say to him?

[Asker]

How are you and I like your shoes

[jahaims]

You watch too many movies

[Iron_Man]

if you give him inviting signals