If you have problems in your relationship, do you ever think you can't make it right?

[NoDecision]

Or do you brush yourself off and go right back into the fray?

[Finchie40]

Only if your partner wants to make it right with you , otherwise you are shit out of luck 😂

[NoDecision]

I guess both have to be in or get off the pot.

[Finchie40]

Yea it takes 2 to make any loving relationship last and work out , if your partner throws in the towel , you are best to walk the other way and accept the fact that it’s over , unless you want to beg for forgiveness , hoping they accept your apology and love you enough to give you another chance, A lot of people break up with each other for stupid reasons and legit reasons all the time. It’s the chance we take when we give ourselves to someone that we hope feels the same way that we do about them. Unfortunately a lot of people experience bad seeds before finding a good seed. Someone that truly loves you and stands by your side no matter what can sadly be hard to find , because a lot of people in general are selfish people that only think about themselves , without factoring in their partners’ feelings whatsoever. No relationship is perfect and no one is perfect , but when you meet someone that accepts you for you , including your flaws you should do the same for them if you want your relationship not last and for love to continue to grow between the both of you. , by doing this , gives that relationship a better chance at surviving the long haul , instead of the short haul. Learn to point fingers at yourself before pointing fingers at your partner , sadly a lot of people don’t do that , and then they wonder why that relationship didn’t work out. It didn’t work out because you chose selfishness over taking accountability for your own actions and behaviors. When someone always thinks they are right and never wrong , they will never last in a relationship period , because they can have that relationship all by themselves , they only care about themselves. I only date girls’, and sadly pretty much every girl I dated and been in a relationship with had a very hard time taking accountability for her actions and behaviors, that didn’t follow boundaries the same way she expected me to follow the boundaries for her. And that’s why they became my exes. They

[Finchie40]

Could never admit they were wrong , i was always wrong and she was right. So I no longer get into relationships with girls’ that don’t consider my feelings as well , that do not follow the boundaries her and I set together. Basically whatever is not ok for me to do , needs to be the same boundaries for her as well , otherwise that relationship will not last whatsoever. I treat a girl the same way I want to be treated in return , with respect , trust , honesty and loyalty, other wise I won’t get into a relationship with her whatsoever. Basically thanks for a good time but not a long time

[Iron_Man]

It takes two to tango

[Finchie40]

Exactly and it takes 2 to understand that they can’t always be right

[Iron_Man]

Yes..

[nxrva]

I’m so sick of your obsession with men. Relationship this, relationship that, relationship, relationship, relationship. Enough already—ask so

[sage2021]

Usually it not a bad relationship in the first place, so yes, it's doable.

[NathanDavis]

we didn't have really big issues... all minor things that were easy to "fix"

[TheRagingMetalhead]

Im in a time in my life where im questioning this exact thing. Will it work out or is it fucked? I think most of the time it takes work and it can be fixed but it also depends on the situation. And as long as both partners are willing to work it out together.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

One thing I learned is when you're fucked, it's never as bad as it seems. If you really care and it's meant to work out, put your heart and mind working together and more times than not, you'll pull a rabbit out of your hat

[exitseven]

marriage takes work. If both parties are committed a damaged relationship can be fixed

[robocop666]

a British comedian and his wife separated for 18 months and got back together and are still together decades later.

[NoDecision]

I guess they just had to have their flings.

[Agape93]

Sometimes. Thats when I cut it off

[scott04sa22]

The romantic department doesn't agree with me.

[NoDecision]

Why not?

[scott04sa22]

just doesn't workout for me.

[TonyMetal___1986]

I can make everything right!

[Nicolette1103]

Sure if you work at it.

[doren680]

Everything is possible these days

[AgentG111]

Many times.

[NoDecision]

So then do you give up on it?
https://youtu.be/8aH3H1auHcA?si=JhjA5NjPE5MlOjDl

[AgentG111]

I will work at it if it's worth it. But after divorces it's not on the top 10 list.

[NoDecision]

I guess that is understandable. 😟

[AgentG111]

Thanks, didn't want to spill guys in open so to say.

[Paige2006]

Yes I do