Have you ever fall in love with the right person, but it was just the wrong time?

[Simslover92]

[ohsheeT]

I think if you look at it deep enough we've all been there

And the thing is too that you have to remember Is that there's two people involved And if you cannot be on the same page Even though they might love each other But like you just said Timing wrong time

And sometimes it's the right time but other things aren't aligned

And when something's off or something's wrong you can't force it you have to accept it acknowledge it and move on maybe you might always wonder about it or maybe you can actually Let It Go because when you do that that's when you find something that has been waiting for you for a long time and even then there will become a moment where there's a lesson that's going to be learned because with that person they're the only one that is around you that can give you that lesson we can't always take love to the type of love that makes you hurt

And when somebody falls out of love with you you have to accept it

And by loving yourself to the depth that you should love everybody that's what will get you through it because that's another meaning of love you have to respect whatever the other person wishes and if you love yourself and you love them that much you can walk away and let it go and in time you'll get through it and that time is your choice you can either drag your feet or you can accelerate it by knowing that you love that person knowing that they loved you and knowing that it's not going to work between you both so you love yourself enough to let it go and respect the other person

And since there are two people love is a challenge but no matter what that challenge is we can learn from it and move on and understand it and move on but yeah it could be timing it could be a numerous things

[slatyb]

Yes. We're 5000 miles and 20 years apart and married to other people.

[exitseven]

@slatyb you have a very complicated relationship there

[katiesmuff]

Pretty much just the opposite. I was a single mom of a daughter and not looking for a relationship or anything close to something serious, when like a quick slap in the face out of nowhere came the man who now has been my husband for 16 years and we have added three boys to the family. Began as a one night hookup while on vacation out of the country with three of my girlfriends. This guy never gave up and that god for that as it has been the best thing ever.

[WhitneySnow]

Yes. What about you?

[Simslover92]

Yes I think so.

[WhitneySnow]

Same

[WhitneySnow]

In your case I suspect your ex is just not mature enough to handle a relationship with you. He was probably kind of nerdy in high school and maybe college and is just recently coming out of his shell. He is going through a player phase where he is not ready to settle down with just one girl. Give it time.

[Simslover92]

Perhaps you're right. Though I don't think he's really the player type. He doesn't really talk to any girls besides me. How I know is because we talk nonstop on the phone and text all the time. But I do think you're right about him not being ready to settle down but I think it's because he is avoidant type. While I'm the anxious type and he got scared of that and bailed out before it got too serious.

[WhitneySnow]

You could be right. I tend to assume that guys who are reluctant to settle down do so because they have plenty of choices because that’s been my experience.

[Simslover92]

Oh. I understand. Usually that's the case. But he's kind of different.

[WhitneySnow]

Got it

[WhitneySnow]

Thank you for MHO. Really appreciate it.

[Simslover92]

You're so welcome!

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode all this messy love stuff we’re all stumbling through together 😏

Yes, that “right person, wrong time” thing is painfully real. You vibe deeply, chemistry is fire, but careers, distance, healing from trauma, or emotional immaturity turn it into a near-miss. It feels like a slow-motion heartbreak.

Sometimes they boomerang back, sometimes they become the biggest “what if.” Huge lesson, though: right person at the wrong time is still the wrong person for *right now*.

[LOTSOFWEIRDQUESTIONS]

For me, the answer is yes. I really liked this girl but I didn’t have the guts to ask her out. Later on, I found out that she actually liked me back too. Looking back, I guess it was a case of liking the right person but not having the courage to make a move at the right time.

[NathanDavis]

hmm, not really

not the wrong time no, but it wasn't the right timing at the right time

you see... at the time, it was great for what it was, however... moving forward, that's when other things do change, plans and goals more than anything... and that later part was, they were the things that didn't exactly fit well at the time

but I would not call it the wrong time... it was just different paths, which we took, lol

[Joshydavid25]

I don't believe in that concept.. If you love someone you make it work no matter what.. there's no destined right time, you both make the right time.. What I interpret right person, wrong time is "I just wasn't ready to fully commit I had strong feelings for" one way or another..

[stevenkelly]

Yeah, I have. Sometimes you meet someone who feels right, but the timing just isn’t. I think some people come into your life at the wrong time but still leave a lasting impression

[NoDecision]

I suppose it can happen, but you usually don't find out until later.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/-R0T_gNFwd4

[AngryCarl3]

Who is the right person? Who is the wrong person? You don't have to answer; these are rhetorical questions.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/nWN7POyT1wk

[MrChinaski]

There are millions of right people out there.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes, in a way. I think that the "right" time is when YOUR time is right to become the best person you can be. Thus, being the best partner you can be. So while it might not have been a right time, there will be with somebody else.

[Bricealan]

@Simslover92 Yes, and that is very frustrating.

[RavVid]

They have all been the wrong person or the wrong time or both the wrong person and wrong time

[xawyx-3]

I'm not sure, I guess it's possible... maybe, once or twice.

[genericname85]

How would I know it was the right person if we were never together. I'd argue you can't know that.

[Anonymous]

No, but they apparently flet it was rhe wrong time. I strongly disagree. If someone's worth it, you make it work.

[Shiprex]

I should have fallen in love with myself before trying to do the same with others.

[exitseven]

Not really. With me it was usually the wrong place.

[Anonymous]

No. They were all the wrong person except my wife.

[Pterodon]

If it’s the wrong time then she wasn’t ever the right person

[Nikki1989]

No, just the wrong guy.

[MrChinaski]

Yes. At least three times.

[rgb008]

Nope. Hard to make me fall.

[KostasKouvalis]

How is that even possible?

[TonyMetal___1986]

I guess my first relationship was like this...

[fish5505_87]

Maybe, I'll never know!

[msc545]

I have. She was married and not to me.

[AgentG111]

Yes.

[Paige2006]

Yes I have!

[dudeinohio]

Nope.