What’s your most attractive red flag?

[ElenaLena]

For me.. I’m probably a little too confident sometimes… but I like knowing what I bring to the table 😌

[Finchie40]

I guess I would say my charismatic personality, that sometimes makes girls’ think I am flirting with them when really I am not , I am not really shy and I am not very judgmental. When I am in a relationship with a girl , she will sometimes get jealous or insecure thinking I am flirting with other girls’ in front of her , when really I am just being nice and friendly. i like to socialize with people , but when I am in a relationship , i tend to keep my mouth shut more now , because I don’t want her to get jealous or insecure. At times I feel I am better off just staying single , and having fun 😂

[gasman70]

I have a very similar red flag

[NathanDavis]

I can be a bit... way too stubborn sometimes, lmao

but.. on the positive side of that, I can be a very determined and driven person as well

determination is just stubbornness... without the (sometimes) problematic aspects of it, lol

[ElenaLena]

I feel like you interpret your stubbornness as resilience.. which is actually a good quality…You're resilient like a cat! 🙂

[NathanDavis]

no no no... lmao

I can become very stubborn and annoying... once I lose all of my UNDYING patience and tolerance

resilient, I am yes... but that's a different thing, lol

[ElenaLena]

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[queenofcardio]

Sometimes I don't know how to sit in silence, and that can be seen as a red flag to some people. Because sometimes quiet moments can make me feel uncomfortable like something is missing so I talk to make that feeling go away.

Eh, some people like it and some people don't 🤷‍♀️

[ElenaLena]

I like it.. I tend to go that sometimes to break the silence in a group of people 😄

[thegreenyogi]

I am extremely sociable and many times men mistake that for flirting when it isn't the case at all. I flirt very rarely and when I really do it's because a guy is really good.

[ElenaLena]

Same here 😄

[thegreenyogi]

Yeah...

[ManOnFire]

@thegreenyogi Do men see it as flirting? Or they see it as an opportunity for themselves? Men generally like women who are outgoing and friendly, that's what is attractive.

[thegreenyogi]

@ManOnFire Understandably true. However there have been many occasions especially in the case of men that are already partnered that seem to misunderstand my sociable outgoing nature and have ended up making indecent proposals which I have had to turn down and which have placed me in very uncomfortable situations. Of course this isn't the case for all but that has been my experience.

[thegreenyogi]

Thank you!!

[AviatorTom]

Greenland's mostly red flag is attractive...

[Jersey2]

It is literally half red, Tom. And half white. 😂

[ohsheeT]

Me the first day of summer if am out in the hot sun all day

and if I allow myself to get. sun burnt lol

[Joshydavid25]

I give the prospect a little too much attention.. Even in the "talking stages".. I don't like to talk to more than one woman at a time if I start to gain some emotions.. Which ends up leading me to "center" that person and give them more attention than they probably deserve TBH..

[ElenaLena]

Have you had any bad experiences doing so

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, the stories always have an end... In the not so good ways... None ended well..

[ElenaLena]

We live and learn..🙂

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[Joshydavid25]

JK.. Yeah, there's gotta be a balance of non chalent attitude and showing interest..

[ElenaLena]

Of course 😄
by the way.. I loved that movie “I am Legend” I think I’ve watched it 5 times in both ending versions..

[Joshydavid25]

It is a good movie.. Prime Will Smith.. I hope he gets back to making fairly deep, popcorn summer movies like he used to..

[Joshydavid25]

And yeah I watched both endings too.. Of course, I like the less Hollywood ending..

[ElenaLena]

I think the old Will Smith is gone forever..

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, I agree.. I mean he's been gone for a while even before the slap and Jadas entanglements..

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[SummerSunsets_x]

My most attractive red flag or Green Flag , depends on how you take it, but I tend to fall in love and get attached very quickly. It is because I am just very interested in the person and them showing interest in me, means a lot to me because having a man initiate the attraction first has always been something I never got since i am the one in my past that has always initiated things.

[ManOnFire]

Being intense or well-spoken. As in having a conversation or discussion with someone. I've often had women find that to be attractive in me, but to me I know I can get a little deep and will feel embarrassed about it, like I'm talking too much.

[Jersey2]

I don’t follow the rules.

Laws and other rules are like that as well

[ElenaLena]

But we need laws in our life..

[Jersey2]

Yes, we do. I a, glad most people follow them as it makes life much better. I do to, mostly. 😁

[ElenaLena]

😄😄

[Anonymous]

It's almost impossible to get me emotional for long and some women really hate it because they'll have me buying what they're selling for all of 10 seconds before I'm like

[Zack-Bann]

I’m overconfident that I can rock your universe.
And it doesn’t help that I’m always proving myself right 😏

[ElenaLena]

[Nikki1989]

I am far too extroverted for many people.

[ElenaLena]

Nice 😊

[RavVid]

Well I am an optimizer which is often appreciated... but not all the time.

[ElenaLena]

Is it like a profession or a mindset

[RavVid]

Both really. It is a personality type. In making a decision I will explicitly expand my decision tree (but not everybody does) before I start pruning off options.

I also do it for a job. I kinda made a job to suit me.

Sadly girlfriend's can get impatient with the expanding the decision tree phase.

[Billlewis]

Where I live, it's considered low class not to be in a car at all times when you go out, and anyone who walks is viewed as a loser, homeless or a criminal, etc, but not owning a car is the reason why I have money and am in such good health.

[stevenkelly]

Probably being a little too independent 😂. I can give off the “I don’t need anyone” vibe, even when deep down I actually want someone to care, check in, and make me feel wanted. 😭❤️

[Chayce]

I used to be a people pleaser and would avoid conflict to keep the peace. These days that's all out of here. Infact a lot of times i welcome the conflict, the pressure to see who cracks 1st. Put yourself first.

[AngryCarl3]

Smoking, drinking to excess.

In other words, fun.

[jshm2]

They're is no such thing. If it's a "red flag". Then it cannot be attractive, unless you are broken or retarded

[AgentG111]

Mine? 50/50 I'm thick. So it's a Oh? Or an OooH Noo!

[_Jenny_]

@ElenaLena I’m a girl and I love girls more than boys

[ElenaLena]

Ok 👀

[lokiloko]

I'm pretty sure all my red flags are off putting, that's why them are red flags!

[Chazmatazz269]

I’m extremely smart.

[ElenaLena]

Aha.. interesting

[Butterfly2050]

I’m not willing to have premarital sexual relations.

[Paige2006]

I am always late

[Alexson_stormzy]

Delicate mean mugging and bugging

[exitseven]

I am rarely serioius

[Agape93]

Arrogance.

[rgb008]

Not sure…

[RFC1872]

Slave collar.