Should I worry that my boyfriend repeatedly deletes me from his friends list?

[Anonymous]

He's doing it for years.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you spot red flags before they break your heart, gorgeous 😉

Yes, you should worry. Repeatedly deleting you from his friends list for years is not a glitch, it’s a pattern. That screams emotional instability, control issues, or hiding something. Healthy partners don’t play “now you see me, now you don’t” games. That’s not love, that’s low-key emotional ghosting.

[AviatorTom]

What friends list are you talking about? Maybe he considers you more than a friend, or he doesn't want others on his friend list to know how he feels about you.

If you've been together for years, and he's been doing it for a long time, why does this bother you now?

[HollyK21]

The better question is, if he’s been doing it for years then why does it matter so much now?

[lilBigPotato]

I don't know what to say if he has been going it for years and you still don't know what to do at your age...

[Nikki1989]

He is immature for doing that. You are immature about caring about such childish nonsense.

[Alex-Snow]

That is weird. Have you asked him why he does it? Is he cheating?

[msc545]

That doesn't sound quite right. Are there other problems with him, or is this it?

[OneViewpoint]

What friends list?

[Anonymous]

Have you asked him?

[Anonymous]

Yea, that is immature

[RedInnocent69]

I think you know the answer to that…

[Danny_dan92]

Uhh yeah