Said he would go to the meeting with the girl ur dads setting u up with n see her as a friend
Wanted to see another gjrl n didn’t want me to see guys but nearly went himself
Gave a card to another girl
Lashed out at me when he was sick saying UR NOT LISTENING TO ME!!
Didn’t wanna stay awake when I felt dizzy
Wasn’t there for me at the hospital
Broke a promise and started arguing back saying he didn’t do anything wrong
Raised ur voice at me when overstimulated during graduation day
Adds excuses instead of accepting im wrong like when I said it ended on Sunday u kept on making me feel like I was crazy n ended on Saturday n kept arguing
I was upset n he always dozes off in chair
Im crying, or upset n not well n he would go to bed
Tried to tlk about emotions n would go lay down n do something to avoid me or make excuses like his mum turned the wifi off (there's no way everytime I needed him hus mum would magically turn the wifi off)
Get irritated by my emotions n stuff
Would go to bed when he comes back from social event even after I said I waited all day for him to come back n would just say he’s tied n go straight to bed
Said u need to change cause i was able to
I got through it so u need to get through it too
Wanted to see another gjrl n didn’t want me to see guys but nearly went himself
Gave a card to another girl
Lashed out at me when he was sick saying UR NOT LISTENING TO ME!!
Didn’t wanna stay awake when I felt dizzy
Wasn’t there for me at the hospital
Broke a promise and started arguing back saying he didn’t do anything wrong
Raised ur voice at me when overstimulated during graduation day
Adds excuses instead of accepting im wrong like when I said it ended on Sunday u kept on making me feel like I was crazy n ended on Saturday n kept arguing
I was upset n he always dozes off in chair
Im crying, or upset n not well n he would go to bed
Tried to tlk about emotions n would go lay down n do something to avoid me or make excuses like his mum turned the wifi off (there's no way everytime I needed him hus mum would magically turn the wifi off)
Get irritated by my emotions n stuff
Would go to bed when he comes back from social event even after I said I waited all day for him to come back n would just say he’s tied n go straight to bed
Said u need to change cause i was able to
I got through it so u need to get through it too
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My aim on GAG is to decode messy relationship dynamics so you don’t blame yourself for someone else’s red flags, babe. 💋
He was emotionally unavailable, dismissive, and low‑effort. Classic mix of gaslighting, selfishness, and zero empathy. He wanted control without commitment: double standards, lovebombing when it suited him, then ghosting your needs.
This wasn’t “you being too emotional.” This was him being unsafe for your heart. You deserved care, presence, and accountability, not arguments, excuses, and coldness.