If a guy leaves soon after sex does that mean I got used?

[Anonymous]

I was staying at a hotel in my old state and when we got done we went to the gas station so he could get a drink and when we got back to the hotel he left like 6 minutes later...

He had to drive 20 minutes back to his house and it was only like 11

When he said goodbye he hugged me really really tight and madeout with me for a few minutes...

But does this sound like I was used...

[ahsra]

Did he have a curfew?

You don't have to look for the bad. I did that with my boyfriend for awhile a it ruined a lot I thought he just wanted me for sex and that was not it at all.

You could have worn him out and he knew he needed to get home and rest up which would be more of a compliment for great sex than anything..

Or maybe he thought he couldn't control himself if you turned him on again and he didn't have a condom...

Just ask him about it straight up!

[Asker]

No he didn't have a curfew

It did last like 2hrs so that may be why! I didn't even think of that!

thanks

[JustMe2008]

Nope. Doesn't sound like it. It's perfectly fine. You guys went to the gas station to get something to drink and then he gave you a nice hug and left soon. That sounds to me more like peaceful departure after some playful action. Something more on the lines of expressing satisfaction.

[Anonymous]

OHH FUCK GUYS LIKE THIS I HAD SOMETHING SIMILAR HAPPEN WHERE NOJOKE LIKE 4 MIN AFTER WE FINISHED I WAS PRACTICALLY GETTIN KICKED TO THE CURB SINCE HE HAD TO "GO HELP SUM1", IF HE DIDNT USE YOU HE WOULD HAVE CALLED YOU OR MADE SOME CONTACT EITHER WHEN HE GOT HOME, OR THE NEXT DAY, SO IF HE CONTACTED YOU VERYYYYY SOON AFTER THEN I SAY YOU WERENT USED, IF HE WAITED A FEW DAYS OR YOU HAVENT HEARD FROM HIN THEN YES You WERE USED..GUYS SUCK! LOL