I'm jealous of my boyfriend's cousin

[jennyloves]

So I have a new boyfriend. We were dating for 3 months maybe 4 and we finally decided to make it official! I'm only 20 and my boyfriend is 36 . He is a sweet guy and all but he has a female cousin who I can't stand ! I don't know her personality but she always post stuff on his wall on face book ! Like I love you and win will you come over and things like that <3 it kid bugs me ! I understand that she is his family and she was in his life way b4 I was but I feel sometimes as if she wants to be more then just a cousin as creepy and controlling as it may sound! She text him during Christmas day Win he should have been paying attention to me and his fem on that day because I went over his house on chritmas eve and day ! it really annoyd I kida whated to grab his cellphone and tell her to back the hell up but that is his COUSIN AND that just push him away from me ! he would tell me that they use to hang out a lot and he would take her everywhere with him b4 I showd up in his life . and now she always sends him Facebook wallpost and he calls her cute names he don't call me :( what should I do is this close relationship with his cousin going too far?

[hakuna_matata]

lol..why are you so upset? she is his cousin sister... not his girlfriend. don't be so insecure. family has a very important place. what if your boyfriend starts getting mad about your friend/ brother/sister/mother/father texting you or posting on your walls? its irritating ...let it go. he is not a private property on which you can stamp "propery of jennyloves"... let him act however he wants to with the people in his life. his relations with you cannot regulate his relations with others. so stop thinking like this or else your boyfriend will start seeing you as an insecure control freak person...which is so not attractive!

[V3RDNV]

nailed it.

[elizsara]

Been there. But, what does your boyfriend reply to those wallposts on Facebook? And do you know how their relationship was like before you started dating him?

Personally, I think the best thing for you to do is just be honest with your boyfriend.

Or, you can always add the cousin on Facebook. See how she's really like. If she's nice to you and acknowledges you as her cousins girlfriend, I don't think there should be a problem. :) Anyway, good luck!

[jennyloves]

thanks you have been thre and you should know how it feels <3

[kataloso]

You're dating a dude nearly twice your age that you suspect could be banging his cousin. And for good measure, this dude that is old enough to be prez of the US of A apparently spends plenty of time on Facebook.

Oh, but you said he's sweet. So um, I guess maybe threaten to kick this cousin chick's ass so you can mark your territory and try to make things work with your man. Good luck.

[jennyloves]

i don't think that kicking her ass is going to help ! its guna push him away !

[aspenchef11]

Jealous already! There is something to be said for dating within a certain age range and 16 years is a pretty big gap. If she is his cousin and you are already wound up, just wait till an ex sends him a message on FB...

[shacodraco]

step yo game up, looks like you got competition lol.

[AltTech]

That is really creepy. I have a friend who is 37 and he has a 17 year old daughter. *shudders

[shacodraco]

lmao that's so random and irrelevant dude

[Anonymous]

What the f***?! Is this sh*t real?!

[Anonymous]

Well, eat it, or dump him.