Why do we argue so much when we're just friends with benefits?

[angelface10]

he was my friend with benefits since 2009 till 2011 we've always been off and on with our friendship because he always does something to piss me off or that he knows is wrong throughout the years I have tried to pursue a relationship with him but every time he refused and just wanted to continue to be friends which was fine with me so not only are we not in a relationship bt he also has made it clear to me that he does not want to be in a relationship with me I feel like I'm going through the motions and we're not even together one minute were cool & hanging out but the next he's making me upset about something then it's an argument ugh why we can't get along for two seconds when your not my man?

[Anonymous]

Because you've started letting your emotions get in the way. Which is a natural thing. Its hard to separate your emotions from sex. Believe me I know, because I had an friends with benefits for two years as well. I think you're causing yourself a whole lot of stress. If you want a relationship it should definitely not be with your fwb. If he's made it clear he doesn't want to be in a relationship, there's pretty much nothing you can do to change his mind. I say, cut him loose and find a real man that will love you and want to be in a relationship with you. I know that is easier said than done, but you'll be much happier in the long run. Best of luck to ya...

[Anonymous]

Because ever since he rejected your hopes of a relationship everything he do irritates you. I think more you try to make him want to be with you the more it pushes him away. You agreed top s friends with benefits. Now you want a commitment and he doesn't. Bottom line you two are on different planes and since he it's not in yours you two keep crashing

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Drop him if he's just going to keep acting like a whiny bitch, like seriously. I'm guessing he feels like he has some sort of entitlement to you since you've guys have been messing around for so long.

[Prof_Don]

The cardinal rule of FWB is being violated...

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...feelings are getting involved. :-/

[best_name_ever]

Maybe you guys have stronger feelings towards each other, either that or one of you does.

[Anonymous]

Both of yall have feelings for each other! Whether you want to adimit it or not! Simple as that!