Being intimidated by age difference?

[Anonymous]

are you slightly intimidated by older guys, girls?

I'm 21 and talking to a guy who is 32. I'm entering grad school. He's working, he went for the same field I did.

So far he treats me nicely and with respect, not like a child.

His age allures me in a way. It does slightly intimidate me...because he's a real man...which keeps me way interested.

And I think at this stage of my life he isn't just trying to get laid. He wasn't being crude or sexual at all.

is this right? Anyone else similar existence?

[cun7n1nja]

Nope, I'm 22 and my ex was 28, my current boyfriend is 32. Things obviously didn't work out with the ex, but it's working beautifully with my current guy. I don't think too much about age, because my social circle is very diverse in that aspect, ranging from like 19 to 40, with a couple even older exceptions, lol.

[katiesmuff]

I spend most of my dating time with guys quite a bit older than me and pretty much find them similiar as to what you are saying. In the end I think like most all guys they want the prize between our legs, but the older guys know how to get there in a fashion that makes us feel good about ourselves.

[Asker]

Yes if we build an emotional connection and become close and he isn't just trying to get laid but really enjoys my companionship too then I am happy giving it up. I just hate hit and quitters

[FaceInTheCrowd]

hit&quit ... bahahahah ... sigh =)

[indian_empress_91]

what she says is true and I don't know why she'd getting down rated... guess the hit and quit team don't like it lol

[katiesmuff]

And the little boys here wonder why we go after the older MEN!

[butterfly_girl]

I've always gone for older guys, not sure why. My first boyfriend was 10 years older than me. My current man is 6 years older and we have an amazing relationship so as long as you're both happy that's all that matters :)

[FaceInTheCrowd]

I am intimated by age difference. Anyone outside of 10 years plus or minus belongs to another generation as I see it. I have no interest in grandma sexually. The 20 somethings I have met are generally uneducated, ignorant and could never take a relationship seriously.

[tony01]

im talking with 46 age women but has teenagers spirit. it doesn't matter ...LIVE UR LIFE :)

[throwit]

there is something alluring about an older guy,

if you're both being mature about it (and he seems to be) id say go for it!

[Konnour]

I'm not intimidated by older women, I just don't feel attracted to them that much as to girls of my age.

[Asker]

how do you feel about a guy in his early 30s with a girl in her early 20s?

[Konnour]

I don't approve it, I think it's weird and creepy.. like, why they can't find anyone closer to their age?