Can any girls relate? If so, please share your experiences. : )
Does it ever make you feel insecure when your boyfriend or girlfriend idolizes a celebrity?
Can any girls relate? If so, please share your experiences. : )
yes and no. I mean, be honest. Who DOESN"T have the hots for itleast one celebrity figure. But I still feel insecure, especially if the guy is like, "she's the hottest woman on the planet" or seems to be really really into her. I think that if your celebrity crushes are kindof a joke, like you admire them from afar but it doesn't change the attraction you have for your man than its completely innocent. If however, the guy is comparing me to her and seems to use her as the "standard" for beauty ... then ofcourse I get insecure and that's at the point where I might bounce out of that relationship because its rude to compare your girlfriend or boyfriend to a celebrity. I mean, if the guy cannot seperate a celebrity crush from real life then he's dillusional and probably not worth your time. Just my thoughts on the subject.
Awwh! Yeah, I totally know where you're coming from! I damn sure have my celebrity crushes but knowing that my man doesn't feel 100% confident and proud of his body, I don't talk about how hot they are and how amazing their abbs are. I especially hate it when he's got half naked pictures of women on his bedroom walls; women who look nothing like me. Maybe I'm just being sensitive, but that's kinda sorta a slap in the face.
Yeah I know. It's so funny because if you were to say that so-and-so's abs are hot, he'd probably be hurt. But it's no big deal for him to have photoshopped women everywhere. hmmm ... double standard. But posters of girls are really normal for guys. He might just have them up and still only want to be with you. If it really bothers you, I'd get a few man posters up. haha. It will send some sort of message to him, that's for sure.
Celebrities may look gorgeous and perfect but a lot of the image is makeup, body shaping under garments, lighting/photography tricks, crazy hour upon hour workouts and specialized diets. It's not that some of the celebrities are naturally beautiful or pretty without all that but they're held up to be the ideal woman and the epitome of beauty but it's the made-up image and not the true person though. It's hard to be like someone and something that even they don't look like without a lot of help.
A little, but then I just think to myself, "I find celebrities good looking, and I'd rather be with my SO, so stop you're silly worrying, girrrrrl!"
It's one of those jealous reactions I can control :)
Did not read your post... but last girl I dated would joke about wanting to have sex/mother the children of celebrities, and every time she did it felt like she was cutting my heart in half.
This is one reason why I HATE the "celebrity scene". also, most don't really seem "human", they seem more like robots/wax figurines that someone made out of their image of their "perfect perfect perfect woman", and it always looks bad to me. I wouldn't be able to date someone like that.
Also, almost every celeb f*** up their lives with sex and or drugs or weight sh*t in the end.
Regardless of the celebrity's personal faults and issues such as appearing to be the "perfect man or woman" and some people not being into that; it's more about the fact that you want your partner to appreciate you fully for everything you are and everything you're not and it's hurtful when they look at another person and blantantly won't shut up about how hot they think they are. and it's clear as can be that the person has physical traits you don't.
:( I know how you feel.
Like if they actually got the opportunity to have a chance with that person, they'd leave you for them. If it came down to them choosing, they wouldn't choose you.
Haha of course not.. if I did I would have to hunt down Leonardo Dicaprio =D
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Would you be insecure if I idolize Johnny Depp?
LOL, no, but that's because I know he's no competition. My man is straight. lol
I'm straight...
well then that's different because you're not saying you want him romantically or sexually
Johnny Depp isn't good looking.
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