No, I would tell him/remind him of when your birthday is, and remind him that he forgot your birthday and didn't do ANYTHING, not even call on your last birthday, and it hurt you. Tell him that its important for him to at least do SOMETHING for your special day. However, tell him that he doesn't have to go all out or anything. Your not asking for a lot here, just spending time with you, maybe take you to a movie or something simple will make you really happy. Your not asking him to all of a sudden buy you jewelry or anything. This is something ALL girls expect from their boyfriends, and dare I say, all boyfriends expect from their girlfriends. I love it when my significant other does anything for me for my birthday. It makes you feel that your someone special.
So yeah, its OK to EXPECT this from your boyfriend. Just as long as your not expecting jewelry or a lavish getaway. :) If he can't even make a little effort for your birthday, then drop him like a bad habit, because your worth it! Good luck!
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Idea:
1) Why do you need his permission? Just go do what you want
- This will cause drama, be prepared for it or address it ahead of time with an explanation.
2) Argue with him (even though you don't want to)
- Releases bad hormones into your blood stream, decreasing the quality of your day/life
3) Talk with him in a civil manor
- From the sounds of it, he probably won't care, which will irritate you
4) Figure out what's going on in his world
- 9/10 times that a guy starts "Acting funny" is because he doesn't feel understood. Maybe he's thinking you have some huge plans (like last year?) and he's currently overburdened at work (just an example)... In turn he's being "resistant" because he doesn't feel like you are understanding where he's coming from. This allows you the insight necessary to explain #1 (see first in list) in detail and probably gain support over idea.
Hope it helps,
ArtistBBoy
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