I'm 22 years old she's 18 and still in high school can it work?

[Anonymous]

So here's the deal I'm a senior in college and I've fallen for this girl in high school and she's only 18 and still immature I'm not sure if she's fallen for me but I've got signs from her that she wants a relationship. Can it workout? Its driving me nuts. thanks.

[missdjk111]

oooh hmhm that is a tough one well once she gets out of high school it wouldn't really matter.. age wise wouldn't materr. if she is giving you hints that she wants you then take thoes hints and just stay with her keep in touch until she gets out of high school and go from there

[missdjk111]

well umm then I don't kno.. you want her to be urs right?

[Asker]

she wants me to be hers. lol.

[Temporary46]

Maybe.

In two years she will be 20 and you will be 24 or so right?

It's not a huge age gap overall, it's just the life-experience stages of high school versus college versus being a working adult etc.

Depends on the two of you.

[Asker]

true we have a connection and flirt and smile at each other all the time at work. every time I see her I smile and she smiles one time I walked around a corner and she ran into me she was kinda shocked to see me and all she could say was hi and it made me feel good.

[JessC03]

Yes I think it can work. Age is just a number. She is technically legal. As long as you guys have a connection, you can make it work. It is all about how you play your cards.

[Asker]

instant connection I'm crazy for her but I'm skeptical because she flirts with other guys but not to the degree that she flirts with me (flirts with me like crazy and always smiles says hi and thank you when I help her out).

[JessC03]

She probably flirts with other guys to make you jealous. She wants to know if you care enough to notice. If its an instant connection, why wait? Go for it!

[Asker]

i think its just her personality and she's hard to read and I think she's been flirty with other guys when she doesn't even have a clue when I'm around (i've seen her and I'm pretty sure she hasn't seen me when she's flirting with other guys).

[JessC03]

ok well if it's just her personality then you have nothing to worry about. Ask her out already :P

[Asker]

i'm scared what if she just does it because she's a tease. I'm going crazy.

[JessC03]

Be a man. if she says no, it's her loss.

[Asker]

lol you think so?

[JessC03]

Yessss

[Asker]

thanks I'll man up and talk to her some more flirt and ask for her number or for coffee lol hopefully she doesn't say no.

[JessC03]

Any time:) good luck! You probably won't need it though.

[Asker]

thanks for the confidence boost I'll make sure to wear nice cologne and smile to get her.

[__eazye__]

me and my girlfriend are in the exact same boat! she just graduated highschool and I'm a senior in college graduating in the summer, she's the girl of my dreams and our connection is unreal -so trust me it can definitely work :)

[Yeahhbro]

Yeah it can work out, girls love guys older than them specially since you are about to graduate you are like candy for her.

[Asker]

thanks man besides I want to flex my muscles at her and grab her and make out already lol.

[lace1228]

Give it a go. Just because she is in high school doesn't mean she isn't mature. If you want to make it happen then make it happen. When two people want to make it work it well.

[stillagoodgirl]

Long term no,she might want to experience college without a boyfriend unless she matures alot

[Asker]

experience as in have sex with as many guys as possible? you can experience college without that.

[stillagoodgirl]

No like go out with friends .she might feel guilty

[antonlikesmlb]

Don't do it.

[Anonymous]

She's too young for you bro

[Asker]

18 is legal.

[Asker]

she keeps flirting with me and giving me those eyes I feel like she's gonna grab me and start making out with me no joke.