My first boyfriend was the kind of guy who has no problem getting girls and he was proud to see other men look at me. My second relationship didn't last long enough for me to know if he's the super jealous sort but he was certainly clingy. My third boyfriend was the kind who cannot stand it when other men look at me. We often got into fights over it. I couldn't stand it because it is something I can't control. Now I'm interested in this guy and I asked if he's the crazy jealous sort that couldn't handle it if another man looks at his girl. He apparently thinks quite like my first boyfriend: other men can admire but cannot touch so he'd be proud of it because he's f***ing that. Well, it sounds a little crude when put that way but I get his point. Not boasting but honestly, I do like to be admired and to make my man feel like he's got someone hot on his hand. Guys, what about you? Are you the crazy jealous sort or are you proud to see people admiring your girl? What goes through your mind when you see that?
Thanks everyone for your answers. I know now it's okay for guys to see other men checking out their girl. It was just my last boyfriend who was so insecure.