Visiting an out of town guy friend.

[Anonymous]

Guys if you could please answer.

I have a crush on one of my guy friends. Unfortunately he moved away about three-years ago. We stayed in touch this entire time. At first it was just emails and texts about work...as we work for the same company.

I really didn't think it was going anywhere but a friendship. And figured even if he did like me more a long distance relationship would be something he would not be interested in.

Since the beginning of the year almost every email he has sent has had an invitation to visit him and some type of sentiment saying that he cares (he usually jokes about it but it is apparent).

Now, is he just lonely moving to a city without any family or do you think that maybe he is starting to feel something for me?

[ivan50]

let me suggest you to be more clear.

first, have you a boy friend now?

1. if not

Try to "push" him up: Ask him are you tune in with me? what do you want from me, now and the future.

this is a straight and direct one but still this is the effective way to find out. if he's just joking, you'll find out. Moreover, if you afraid losing him as a friend, just put forward the explanation I want to be your friend but what do you think of me in the future.

2. if yes,

I doubt that you're easily tempted by communication. Compare with your boyfriend now and let your heart chose who is the correct one as your boyfriend.

Meanwhile, you guys already working and why not start a new live together.

Moving a dinner table can be executed by one person, but if it'll be two person I believe this will be more easy ;)

[Anonymous]

It seems he's starting to like you.