Should I lie and say my longest relationship is over 1+ years on POF?

[Anonymous]

I've actually never had a relationship and only 2 hookups because I've been shy and confused almost my entire life.

[songbirdkittymeow]

Don't lie. She will eventually find out. If anything, just mention it in your bio as to why you've never had a relationship. Maybe leave out the hookups. Be positive though!

You should also try okcupid. It's a free dating site as well and I think they do a better job of finding "the right match" for you.

Good luck and don't be so worried. Some women like shy guys! ;)

[Anonymous]

don't lie there's nothing wrong or weird about not having been in a relationship.

2 hookups as in long term sexual thing?

[Asker]

no as in 2 one night stands, no female friends and no relationship, because I only see a girl I like very rarely and I'm too shy. even though I'm fixing the underlying problems, if women see I should have no problem getting a girlfriend - why is his longest relationship less than a year, somethings fishy... etc.. and then I get no responses. I already never get any responses, I did get one... in the last few months...

[Opinion Owner]

alright what are the other options on pofs? may be you can explain in the personal section that you're kinda shy, or include other details...

[LadyofChrist777]

I met my hubby on POF. It is okay to lie but clear it up to the person you talk to .

LOL.. be like... by the way I never had a relationship...and then explain why.. Trust me- the right one will understand... Women who don't understand are likely to hurt men more (Data is not supported by any research) just saying...

[523206720]

If you've never been in a relationship - you can technically say any length of time you want because they don't have a "no relationship." option.

[curiousm3]

If you lie, you'll record will stay the same: 0 relationships, 2 hookups.

[shenholds09]

There is really no need to lie about your past it just gets you in trouble

[theblackwidow]

If a girl does not want to date you because you never been in a long term relationship then you dodged a bullet. You want a woman that will judge you for you not your relationship history.

[Tabra]

Don't lie, if you meet someone it's not the best way to start thing off

[Anonymous]

No, don't lie. Girls will find out anyway and then think you are a liar.

[IHateMeganFox]

No. Just be honest with your answers man.

[Anonymous]

What's the piint of lying? Just be honest

[Anonymous]

Why not it seems like that site is full of liars

[Cromartie]

Yes. Lie. Good idea.

[Asker]

this isn't a joke.

[Cromartie]

You sure? Because I'm pretty sure your idea is kinda dumb. You lie on the internet and POOF! You get caught after the land the girl? What's the point in that? Lose/lose.