Questions: Relationships

Your family is strict and constantly asks your boyfriend to go grocery shopping with you (his girlfriend) and go from store to store for about half the day. One day, your sister leaves the house (for good) and things are bad. your parents are distraught refusing to do anything but cry in bed. You call your boyfriend late at night and tell him there is no food at home that you’ll probably have to see if he can take you grocery shopping. He says ONE store. You say ill see, ill call u tomorrow bc what if i need you? He says thats fine, ill be here. You call and he says he won't take you because he is with his brother and his SO who just came down from 2 towns over. He has told you in the past he values family. You are upset but your boyfriend doesn’t understand why. Who is right?

You have 2 options.

Option #1 - Self confident woman who is fun to be around, etc. however she has a life (I do NOT mean she's seeing other men). When you're not together she isn't blowing up your phone, she's not hounding your social media, etc. If you don't respond after some time she may text you a "are you ok" sort of text.

Option #2 - Clingy woman who is fun to be around, etc., however she is clingy. When you're not together she is blowing up your phone, hounding your social media, complains if you don't respond fast enough, etc (god forbid you go a few hours without responding cause she'll be calling all your friends asking where you are).

I'm asking because I think that hardworking women are upset that they're getting less from their man than women who are lounging around.

I'm not saying men do this but I'm not saying they don't do this. I'm simply wondering what you think.