Questions: Relationships

I didn't get my first serious girlfriend until I was 29, almost 30. In fact, other than online attempts with girls where they rejected me upon meeting in person or short term dating where nothing transpired from it, I never had an actual girlfriend before that. Luckily and with the grace of God, I am now engaged. It is a huge relief.

This had caused so much grief, stress, and anguish over the years being single with no chance in sight of finding love. Shockingly, I was being looked at as the problem for being so depressed about it. I feel 100% that I was justified to feel this way, considering most humans start exploring romance and sex starting in middle or high school.

I wouldn't advocate for this to be the norm, especially for those who truly desire to have a significant other and a family in their lifetime. I know by the time I turned 29, I was already experiencing erectile dysfunction, libido issues, and low testosterone. Shit, for all I know, I can be infertile at this point. I didn't experience these issues up until recently.

We men all know, that having deep emotional moments are a big no go for our girlfriend unless you are ready to risk it and end up single again as your girlfriend loses all respect and love for you. See I distanced myself from my boyfriend after seeing him cry for the first time. Any advice? to see what I mean.

here's where a separate female friend comes in to save the day, knowing you can't expect a romantic relationship with her, so there's nothing to lose if you go to your separate female friend and let out your emotional sides, cry a river or do your thing, that you can't do with your girlfriend, thatll risk your relationship and her respect for you. No more pretending to be completely exhausted and crashing into the bed when you feel like shedding tears.

Remember its the girls, that make these rules and then claim, that they want a man, who is in touch with his emotions unless you are a top tier male. And if you as a conventional man can't adhere to their rules, then you'll get whats coming such as what happened in the question i linked above. Say goodbye to the relationship and the bedroom hanky panky.