What are the cons of being in a relationship with a man and what are the cons of being in a relationship with a woman?

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CupcakeTheDestroyer · Accepted Answer

Cons of being with a woman:
1. You will think you are fixing the problem only to find you’re fixing the wrong problem
2. You will need to give her the deciding power for when you have sex

Cons of being with a man:
1. The sexual satisfaction is a 50/50 shot
2. He will lack emotional intellect and struggle to communicate in that facet
2a. Alternatively, he will have just enough emotional intellect to address his issues and trauma but not support you through yours
3. The constant pressure to meet his approval
4. You have to do everything yourself because the only problems he can fix are physical and his standards of cleanliness will not be as high as yours
5. He will say you’re naggy, nitpicky, annoying, etc. when you try to address this with him
5a. This is a repeating pattern where your problems will be undermined throughout your time with him
6. He may be lying about his personality just to make sure he has a girlfriend and you will find out only after investing about 1-3 years into that relationship
7. Every problem will somehow be only and exclusively your fault when they are present

alice55 · Accepted Answer

Generally :

Men don't do anything unless they're asked be it cleaning the dishes or cleaning the floor they need to be asked to do it

As for women they love nagging and scything have to be done in the second they ask if not they blow up

As for men if like me you're a lazy girl that don't do much except when asked (i learned this from the men of my family XD) then the guy would become the nagging partner weirdly.

MicahRaine · Accepted Answer

Well I think it's pretty hard to say, as this comes down to personalities. But I'll risk making a generalization though. Men

Emmytexrex · Accepted Answer

Everything has pros and cons this is neither here nor there I don't have any answers on this

Crimsyjo · Answer

I'm not going to do a list because I think it's often cyclic and the outcome is listed as a fault without any consideration of what caused it in the first place.

From my perspective I think men often get lazy in relationships which leaves women feeling used or unappreciated and unless both couples communicate well this leads to a woman getting "emotional" and negative. Which then has the opposite effect of her desire. Instead of making a guy want to treat her better he withdraws more and hates coming home to negativity and the relationship just breaks down until she is screaming abuse and he walks away.

OR from what I hear (tho i haven't witnessed this) a man works hard to provide but feels unappreciated because the woman is wanting more material things and he is the one feeling used. But same cycle of her increasing negativity and his withdrawal from it ensues. I think.

It is very hard to come back from that spiral.

aquamarine321 · Answer

I’m not even sure how to answer this question

CarolinaGirl5 · Answer

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