Questions: Relationships

I feel so defeated. I have just become so cynical and bitter now.

I am 27 years old and never even had a real girlfriend before. I only want a woman where we can be each other's first loves. I am becoming really depressed about life now. I don't know how much more I can take.

I will definitely be creating the same question for us straight men out there and the lesbian women out there but I must admit this question were kinda fun.

Athletic Man- He is the sort of guy who will be playing sports and realistically ask you to join. He is either good at some sports or exceptional at every sport plus he is a form believer of a healthy lifestyle not only for himself but also his love one.

Rich Man- He is the one with the big bank account who can make all the women and men swoon over, if you want the guy who can give you everything your hearts desire e will definitely be your sort of man.

Gentlemen- The gentleman is a form of believer of helping his girl/guy in need, this classy man will always be deck out in a fancy suit and help pay the bills and he would even hold the door for you.

Bodybuilder Guy- Are you the sort of man/ woman who wants to see their man completely shirtless have you ever fantasize about a man lifting weights and heavy equipment for you if you answer yes the bodybuilder man is just your taste.

Feminine Man- Prefer having a man who has more of a traditional ladies touch but not fully committed in women. The feminine man is your idea man he can cook, talk about feminine products and is definitely interested in wearing and knowing the latest fashion.

Masculine Man- The complete opposite of the girly male, he is not into anything feminine the manly man will only be doing things that are considered masculine plus he doesn't believe in needing assistance, if you the sort of man/woman who wants a man who can fully act like a man than masculine men are your idea partner.

Ladies and Gentlemen which style of men would you prefer to go after? There isn't any right or wrong answer.

My relationship has gotten to the point where the lies, arguments and cheating have caused so much toxicicity. Once a relationship has gotten to this point, do you brevet that there is any hope to trust, love, and respect each other. I love my significant other, but this is hell. I don't know what to do. Can we fix this?

I have a friend who's a decent enough guy overall. A hard worker with a friendly disposition that you can rely on, except when it comes to his relationships. He likes to blame everyone else for the reasons his relationships fail. "She lied to me. She left without warning. He lied to her about me. He seduced her into leaving me." That kind of talk. Near as I can tell there have been 3 women, from an outside view, that were to blame for things turning bad.

That being said his personality in a relationship is more often at fault. He's very dismissive of small issues that later turn into large ones. He talks down to his women like they legitimately don't know any better. And if He's not getting the attention he thinks he deserves he'll try and get sympathy from every other woman who will listen. Overly needy and self centered, is how I imagine most of his exes would put it.

Irregardless, he is still a friend of mine and I've been trying to push him on to a better path for the past few years. Unfortunately he seems like he's settling into the lonely and bitter old man trope by embracing his "victim-hood" and shutting positive people out of his life. I just wanna know if I can pull him back from his downward slide or should I let him hit bottom and let find his own way back?