Questions: Relationships

The gentleman/chivalry angle is riskier, you'd get friend zone most of the time I think. (correct me if I'm wrong)

Wouldn't it make more sense to fuckboy and fuck a lot of bitches? Since it gives you a higher chance of meeting The One?

Plus you never know it's good until you try it am I right?
It's always a good idea to try before you buy

Let's supposedly say you were given a choice between two types of lovers to spend with for the rest of your life! The first one being highly academically intelligent but very low on emotional intelligence and the second one being highly emotionally intelligent but has very low academic intelligence. Do you value someone who has more knowledge and is "book smart" or someone who's more empathic and can understand feelings? Both of them have their pros and cons so pick wisely! If you're not sure about the difference between academic and emotional intelligent, you can review them below:
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Academically Intelligence: Someone who understands the world around them using logic and reasoning to determine the outcome of life. They'll likely be self-improving themselves constantly by keeping up with the news, reading books, practicing activities and conducting research on life in general.

Emotionally Intelligence: Someone who can understand a person's emotions and feelings, including their own. They are able to relate to other people by going through similar experiences and/or can embrace the suffering/happiness of them. They are also very observant about people's actions and what the outcome of their emotions/feelings will be.

I started dating this girl who told me she's waiting. I told her sex isn't that important to me but the longer I date her the more I'm starting to feel like this was a mistake.

What would you guys do if you met someone like that?