Have you ever developed an unhealthy crush for someone in your lifetime?

Question

I often feel like there are people who become so obsessed with crushes that it can destroy themselves from within when they try to obtain love that's not possible! Thankfully a lot of people are aware of people who can become potential partners for life and those who can not! Have you ever had a crush that caused your life to be unbalanced, even if it was for a short period of time?

LightstarnX · Accepted Answer

Yes I had a mentally unstable ex who I went out with and she liked me but over time the sticker started falling off, she started saying she didn't care how people died even her closest friends and made wonder if I was part of that group. She also said how I never liked her anyways so she didn't even love me since we have been together. After she broke up with me I tried keeping what little stuff we could enjoy together like memes and games but even that wasn't enough to bring her around and slowly I started to feel bad for myself. Why still love her, she doesn't like me at all. So I tormented myself with the morals of keeping to my promise to stay by her forever or just leave it all and be miserably lonely. Now I'm miserably lonely😂

ichighost · Accepted Answer

More then I would like to admit. One recently pulling strings speaking on wanting to give me a fair shot because she didn't the first time and seen her one night haven't heard from her in 3 weeks. She checks my stories and likes my post but won't speak to me

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I had a crush on a guy once who was emotionally unavailable, and at the time I believed that if I stuck around he'd eventually open up. That obviously wasn't the case and although I do believe he's a good person at his core, he was not in a good place at the time and definitely used me every now and then to stroke his own ego. At first I wanted to deny it because I was young and so infatuated, but I did eventually catch on and decide it wasn't worth it. Getting to that point was really hard though, and him being so emotionally unavailable had made me question if something was wrong with me, or if I was doing something wrong. It was pretty stressful and definitely took a toll on my own mental health.

sunsweet · Accepted Answer

When I was younger it could have easily happened, never did though an now I know better than to start something stupid. I will say I have some people around in my life who really dont know how to handle thier feelings and can't give up. I dont see how you can't reason it out, as they have no hope. I guess they just haven't reach their own epiphany yet.

ragequeen · Answer

Yeah of course, it hurts more than it feels good, but it's so powerful

Anonymous · Answer

Unfortunately yes and still do, but I am recovering. I REALLY like this guy, but he says he's not ready for a relationship atm (personal reasons blah blah blah).
I facebook stalked him daily. Scrolled through YEARS of his feed. I started looking him up on OTHER social media (he does have a twitter). He once posted a picture of him with another girl. I got so upset because I thought that was his new girlfriend, that I turned to drinking and fell into a depression (then I found out it was his sister in the picture -_-).
The cake topper to my situation is when I bought a "background checking" subscription. Not only did I look HIM up (criminal record, last places of employment, family, ect). I looked up HIS SISTER, MOTHER, FATHER and BEST FRIENDS).
At that point, I have to disable ALL my social media and pull myself away from people.

pitzi · Answer

Yes 😢 I haven't gotten to an obsessive point of course, but I became very emotionally depended on a man who was and still is so much to me. If he didn't talk to me that day, I'd become really sad and will think everything's wrong with me. If he talked with me, I'd become the happiest person in the world. I tried (and still do) so much to please him and to try and impress him, because I really do like him. He's pretty much the first ever serious crush I had as well...

Rambler221 · Answer

Well, having one right now actually. I am aware that we are incompatible religiously, but she's one of my best friends and going through extreme stress, due to illness, so I don't know how to explain it to her. I believe, however, that she deserves to know, and that when one does not reveal such emotions they do not fade.

ChloeStarfire · Answer

I had a huge crush on my best friend who lives in another country and I had a crush on him for almost a year. Everytime he uploaded a video on YouTube from a competition I always put a heart emoji on my comments that I post on his videos

tbhiwannasleep · Answer

I have the biggest crush on a guy who treats me badly and I don’t know why. We used to be friends so I think it’s that deep down it may not even be him I’m trying to hold on to but the memories instead- thinking he’ll change when he won’t.

Megatrizzle · Answer

Yeah. She stressed me out and it didn't even matter in the end. We fell out and she got mad at me for it lol.

dirkdigg · Answer

yep I have one now it's only unhealthy cause I'm married and I love my wife but this crush we have been friends forever if she tried I don't think I would say no and I can't say that about any other female

Rangers · Answer

Yeah, I've developed crushes on people who either wouldn't give me a chance, were already in a relationship, or something would prevent the relationship from going anywhere.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, crushes fade over time. I noticed that I developed crushes that looked like my ex after the break up but that went away too after being healed from the breakup.

thisbutterfly81 · Answer

Absolutely yes! Good guy tho... just timing was/is off.

shanks_in · Answer

Nope I haven't and I thank God for it. Though I have seen my friends go through this and it really is hard to see them after they realize what they were doing.

SirRexington · Answer

Yes. I was blinded and couldn't see how much of an inconsiderate bitch she was.

inmensus · Answer

Yes. It was so bad that it pretty much ruined my life for at least 2 years. Now when I think about it I don't know how I let myself do that.

ashnakag666 · Answer

Multiple. Long distance. Obsessed. A combination of the two.

Anonymous · Answer

maybe for some girl from one of my high school classes from long ago

Robert992 · Answer

Oh yeah, and I just regret cause I had an crush on she, we was in a relationship for 2 months and after she cheated on me. by the way instead of this was a very strong friendship

ThisAndThat · Answer

There is not such thing as a unhealthy crush, unless it starts to get to you.

nasty4fun · Answer

Yes I have. I think it was a side effect of being lonely

Syrian_survivor · Answer

Of couuuurse not And I totally DON'T have one atm 😅😂

Piteka5 · Answer

Yes, some years back, too unhealthy acctualy, I was walking into a trap and had no idea

Sixgun77 · Answer

Yep. It wouldn't have been quite as bad if she wasn't such a terrible person though.

NapKweenNinteyFive · Answer

Yeah, my local dominos 3 for £10 meal deal

ChgzDaniel · Answer

About 50 million times. I can't stop myself.

NerdInDenial · Answer

Once but I was stupid...

omgjassy · Answer

Yes, obsession is one hell of a drug

MarilynMansonsSlvt · Answer

Nope xx ~ Mrs Manson

SummerOwO · Answer

No. I get bored of people a lot, unfortunately.

taleswapper · Answer

No; just healthy ones.

BeyondPlusUltra · Answer

Almost fell for damaged goods

thevampire_queen · Answer

I have never been in a platonic love

Moezan · Answer

yepp gotta let go someday

danielmeegan · Answer

Its a part of growing up yes absolutely

LuvAsh · Answer

Yep😩😩

karen_1346 · Answer

No...

DiegoO · Answer

Nop.

Katrina_Rose_Cooke · Answer

Yes.

LegateLanius · Answer

Nope.

GayHowellMeme · Answer

Yeah

sEntILth · Answer

Many times

Slim57 · Answer

Yeah

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